Love Sucks

I fucking hate love, i think women are sent to earth to destroy men, how can they go out with you, tehn all of a sudden, ask if they can be "just frineds"?

FUCKING PISSES ME OFF

Originally posted by supratuner
I fucking hate love, i think women are sent to earth to destroy men, how can they go out with you, tehn all of a sudden, ask if they can be "just frineds"?

FUCKING PISSES ME OFF

It all sucks, honest. We girls get shit on, too, remember. Sorry to hear you're so upset.

come on man. you're only 14. i know it's bad now, but trust me, there's alot more of life to live, and you'll have luck sometime.

correction, im 15 and 1/4

Wow man 15 1/4 is nothing....you have so much time to do whatever you want in love and in life, don't let something like this get ya down too much.

Trust me being twice your age it doesn't get any easier. Wisdom isn't conferred necessarily with the passage of time - otherwise I'd not have made mistakes and caused as much heartache for so many including myself.

Try waking to a big fat cup of melancholy for the last 4 months - it's bitter, ruins your demeanour all day and casts a hazy shadow upon the the things that you try to do. Four months may seem like an eternity to you right now but looking back over the period time marked between the present and your arrival upon the sun - that's even more of an eternity.

I'm a firm believer that no matter what you get back on the horse straight away if you fall off - and each scar makes another lesson on my brutal and evidently lifelong education in relationships.

Love is a beautiful thing - it can make you happy, euphoric but it carries a sting in its tail and that is what you are feeling now - call it withdrawal symptoms but it's nasty, enduring and kicks you in the guts (and often lower).

Originally posted by supratuner
I fucking hate love, i think women are sent to earth to destroy men, how can they go out with you, tehn all of a sudden, ask if they can be "just frineds"?

FUCKING PISSES ME OFF

http://www.iidb.org/vbb/images/smilies/boohoo.gif

That's life.

ya hey welcome to growing up... just be prepared for ALOT more of it!!!!

:bloated: :bloated: :sun: :flash:

Heh

Welcome to life

You're 15. Relax. Not the end of the world. You were together for what? Two weeks or something? I doubt there was even real love there in the first place. At that age just go and be friends with her and don't stress man, it wasn't love that did this, it was the girl. Just roll with it. More will come along.

Don't blame love. It's a beautiful thing.

and just think. for each horrible relationship that ends like this, you're one relationship closer to your true love (if there is such a thing...)

It always sucks the first time around........

I am 14 and I don't have a girlfriend anymore, after seeing so of my best mates after they have been dumped I have just decided to just not have girlfriends until I am older. I am trying to keep my life as simple as possible, but I am quite suprised about how much I have had on my mind already. I have really learnt that nothing really matters that much to get you down, sure, you got dumped by your girlfriend, but life goes on. This is the way I have looked at life for a while now, and honestly, I am a lot happier now then I was with a girlfriend. Maybe it was just her, but when I had the girlfriend, I wasn't a loud to go to the movies with my mates or anything unless I was prepared to get some speech from her about, I am your girlfriend, you should be spending more time with me.

Sorry for the long post, but I thought you should know my look at things and my life is a lot happier like this.

I think school and work give me enough stress, so I will wait until I get out of school.

Yeah. Someitimes. Unless you find the right person. That's the point in love, finding someone you like and someone who likes you. If a person doesn't like you they won't have your kids. Unles you drug them. You get the the picture. Love sucks if you're with the wrong person.....Oh yeah, I almost forgot one of your friends might like you enough to go out with you.

Don't worry about it you get over it it sucks but you'll be ok and meet a nice girl i'll post my sob story to make everyone feel better and lucky there not me. Ok i was very lucky to meet the one in M/S after she 3 years of dating i proposed (i know i was young and stupid not much changes for me does it? I still am) she said yes and after 3months she died since then i've been single and still reeling from the loss. But now I get drunk and wake up with a hot chick Ahh the beauty of College.

how do u even know ur in love if you are only 14...
im 17 and my gf questioned my feelings when i said i loved her...

15 is nothin compared to what i've gone through man u can't say love in 2 weeks it's more of a "i want to get in your pants" lust

Yea, and do that as much as you can while you are young. Soo easy.

gets easier as you get older ...
1.) the girls arent all like 'it has to be perfect' (first time sex)
2.) girls have had more partners so every time they have sex it doesnt have to 'mean something' as much as the time before
3.) u get more experience on how to sweet talk the girls

i fall in love 10 times a day!!! youll get over her . there are so many wonderful girls out there!!!some on the af even!;)
its just too bad i already met "the one" and fucked that up!!oh well.

I agree with the popular vote on this one. You need to not worry about it so much. I would even say don't date for a few years. I've dated quite a few people just because I thought it was the thing to do, but now that I'm actually with someone special, I wish I hadn't wasted the time, effort and emotion on the other people that I knew I didn't really love. Wait. It's worth it.

You should wait until you find someone that likes you for who you are, and you like them back for who they are. I was lucky enough to find someone like that for my first actual girlfriend, we are still together and are incredibly happy. Some aspects of love can hurt, but most of it is the best feeling in the world.

Yes, love does suck :o

Heres my take on love: It doesnt suck, you just dont know what you want from love yet. Ive found that a majority of younger people, such as ages 13 to 17 and sometimes 18, more or less want a relationship because they like someone and mistake these crushs for love. Then, when something happens and this so-called "love" dissolves, they get pissy and think that since this has happened love sucks and will always suck, when in fact, all they have experienced is a big crush with disappointing results. Love is not being with someone who is "cool" or "hot" or "fun" because of these specific reasons, love is a mutual feeling either both of you feel it or it's not there and the relationship wont work.

wise man once told me: if you can define love, you have no idea what it is.

At the age of 15, sorry... 15 and 1/4 , when a guy and a girl are together, they get a small sexual thing inbetween them, wether they know it or not. They get "happy" if that's how it should be said. Many times, when a young girl and a young guy are talkin to each other, they think this "happiness" is love, it's not... it's just you feeling a bit horny, and her feeling a bit horny and both of you think it's "love" when it is'nt. You'll be blinded by this special feeling which you think is love (when it is'nt) and think that it's true love. A girl will tell her friends " I think I'm in love"... no you're not, you're just happy to be with the other sex.

I can be totally wrong, or I can be perfectly right, you make the choice. I don't even know if I'm right or wrong sometimes.

Hope this helps, if not... you can always get a teddy-bear :finger:

OMG Kids that are 14 think its the end of the world if their gf leaves..lol oh wow are they in for a shock....wait till they get to be in their 20's...I can't complain Im in my 20's and its taken me all this time to find the love of my life..hang in there fella's cupid will strike you when its time!!

Originally posted by supratuner
correction, im 15 and 1/4

wow, I'm 14 and I've already lost meaning to life:o