tahoe/surburban/yukon outside door handle install

I need some serious help...im bout to crack!!! My driver outside door handle has been crack for the past 2 years it broke last week..got new handle...took off cloth panel....took all the screws out metal panel i can pry it back only a little to access the one screw thats held on from inside of door...Alright i got the handle off...but cant get the new handle on..its like a puzzle..the main problem im having is that long rod that connects to the handle..once i connect it i cant moneuver the handle back in the door!! so i tried to put the rod that connects to the lock in first..but now..i cant get to the long rod!!!somebody help please!!!:banghead::banghead::banghead::banghead:
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I took mine apart when I installed a set of "Jimmy Jammers" it was basically a shield to prevent someone from prying the lock open with a screwdriver. They were easy to remove & replace maybe open the other side as a reference. Last week when I changed my door lock motor on my rear door I remember there were two 10mm bolts and the rod that would release the mechanism it was easily taken in or out without any issues are your rods possible bent? I think if you open it and take a look at the other side you may get a better idea.