Girl Problem-What To Do?

I have a problem. I found a girl I really like, shes hot, smart, funny, likes cars etc. She has an on and off bf, but my buddy is being an asshole and wants to go out w.her for revenge on his ex.
Should I tell her I like her, and ask her out before he does, or should I let it slide. By doing this I may ruin my friendship with her and possibly him, but I really like this girl, and he is doing this to spite me and his old gf.

Two reasons why you should do it:

1. Your friend only wants to go out with her to spite another girl, which is wrong if you ask me. Most likely their relationship wont last too long seeing as he probably only thinks her to be attractive and is doing it because he can.

2. YOU like this girl for what she is and what she is in to. You could be a good bf to her and if things dont work out, there is always friendship there.

Your friend doesnt seem like a good friend if he doesnt want you to go out with her so he can get revenge. Who cares what he wants man, what do you want?

Originally posted by Dorikin
I have a problem. I found a girl I really like, shes hot, smart, funny, likes cars etc. She has an on and off bf, but my buddy is being an asshole and wants to go out w.her for revenge on his ex.
Should I tell her I like her, and ask her out before he does, or should I let it slide. By doing this I may ruin my friendship with her and possibly him, but I really like this girl, and he is doing this to spite me and his old gf. I know I sound dumb, but could you draw me a diagram? Are there 4 people in this story, or 3? :bloated:

u sed it urself, she has a guy alred so its not like she will drop him?
but if she does then definately go for it

go for it cuz your friend is going after her for all of the wrong reasons and that isn't acceptable man if you're feelin her carpe diem man and go for it b4 he gets it str8 up that guy is stupid:mad:

Thanks for the input dudes. My friend caved and told me he was really lonely and feeling down(his girlfriend did some bad things behing the scenes) and after seeing my side of the story, he sympathised with me.

Originally posted by HogieGT-R
carpe diem

Man thats the best advice. I saw an NSX with that on the plate and I was floored by the coolness of that. I will take that advice.

im a little too late....
but, i say go for it... or else u mite regret for the rest of ure life

i agree just go 4 it!! you dont want to regret it later. never will find out if you dont try.

Don't care about anyone else, just tell her you like her. If she likes you to, then you're living the high life. If she doesn't, oh well at least she knows you like her. Don't worry about your friend, he's probarbly making shit up.

That is over and done...I let my buddy face the wrath of her bf....:D

On to my next conquest...the chick who always talks to me cuz i let her on the corwded bus ahead of me....Chivalry makes a comeback :smoka:

you should tell her you like her , because one day you might never have the chance . I dont really want spend the time to tell my story but trust me , I know from experience.

i cant stand people who break up and get back together all the time... work out your problems and stay together or break up....:rolleyes:

dude.... here you go from experience....

you let your friend date her because you haven't hooked up with her and he makes a move.... instead of telling her how you feel about her also, you are a good friend to your boy and tell her he's a good guy.....

he sleeps with her.

then he dumps her.

then, since you still like her you go out with her.
you fall in love with her

you begin to hate your friend for what he did
you stop talking to your friend, that friendship is now officially over, you want to pretty much kill him (not literally but you know what I mean)

you stay with her but can never get past what has happened. it bothers you VERY MUCH.

that situation really happened to me. then when we finally broke up, my best friend (another guy all together) slept with her. we were not together anymore but I always will love her and he knows it. I can't believe he slept with my old lady. I would never have done something like that to him. I'll spare the details.

just go over and tap that beautiful ass or somethin. dang maybe you should just go download some porn and be happy. or whatever you do good luck and hope it works out for the best. as for me i am going to go download some porn because i just broke up with my old lady and i am lonely oh well. :monkeypis on old girls friends.

last three guys who posted here: derek is my friend in real life, outside of AF, and since this thread is 3 or 4 months old, he solved the problem...so no real point in posting on here anymore. but good thoughts none-the-less.:)

I just found out my ex, who I still love, almost got raped, so im pissed off at a diff. situation...IM kinda depressed too, cuz I still love her...

Man that sucks I would say try to find someway to clear your mind for a weekend like go camping or something where you can go and think. Try to figure out Why you love her still cause holding on to someone is bad i still kinda do ever since i lost my fincee (a week after my bday so like 10 months now) I've been dating really nice girls that i can't commit to cause i still love her I'm almost ready for a g/f but alot of people don't understand that you need to grieve to move on you might be still grieving not depressed. Either way man i hope things clear up for you i understand stuff like this. so if you need to talk feel free to PM me if you want.