what do the ladies like?

ok so around here [Penn Tech] the ladies are somewhat into the tuner/techie, motor head type guy, but i went to visit LVC the other week and as soon as I mentioned that I was into cars and an automotive engineeer. I was totally ignored by this girl that had seemed very interested in me before>????? I dress preppy I guess and I love to party just as much as the next guy? I was reffered to as a vocational student of vo-techie???? i'm not, but its not like there's anything wrong with that? Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this bias? ladies or gents?

bah, forget her. You'll find one that likes you for you. I did me, just a couple days ago.

5'2, 103 pounds, heee

me so happy... oh calcutta in my pants!

what do the ladies like?


If anyone answers that question will get several Nobel prizes.

Originally posted by Neutrino
what do the ladies like?


If anyone answers that question will get several Nobel prizes.

I second that....

That assumes they all like the same thing - which is buzzzzzz....WRONG.

I don't profess to figuring out any of them... which doesn't preclude me from trying to meet more of them. And DOHCron, as Steel suggested there are plenty of fish in the sea (something like a billion of them probably) so keep looking. I haven't found the perfect specimen (for me anyway) but it hasn't stopped me looking...

Good Luck Dude...

I've been avoiding this long enough, seeing as how I'm the only female in view for miles...

We know what we don't want. That's the easy part. The rest of it gets stickier as you go along. Sometimes for the sake of stubbornness we go after what we don't want anyway (don't ask, I'm not at liberty to say why). Othertimes we grow up and look for someone who doesn't have what we don't want. This is not a fun process. It's harder to find qualities that someone doesn't have than it is to find qualities that someone does have.

Don't try to make yourself fit into some preconceived, magazine image of a mold. It simply doesn't work that way. Besides, if you want a girl who likes cars, she won't be reading the latest issue of Cosmo on what fragrance and style is tres chic for the month. I haven't read a beauty magazine for months, maybe years.

Be yourself. You'll fit someone's idea of "worthy" and you'll be far happier than if you tried to play the role of an angry punk dude. In all honesty, this is so cliche and yet so entirely true it is sickening... WAIT. Just sit and wait.

did any male here undersand any of what dear Tangi just said? :confused: :confused:


:D

good to get a Womans perspective.

Thanks Tangie

And I'd second that thanks to Tangie for her perspective (damn I keep agreeing with Taz all the time).

I'm also with Moppie because I'm bloody confused too. (Hell's bell's that's two in a row). But I guess I shouldn't be surprised this whole woman-man thing is complicated even more so when a some of your best friends are women.

I have to profess I've been utterly useless at long-term relationships... serial monogamy (interspersed with periods of frantic and largely rewardless skirt-chasing) seems to be the story of my lovelife - and usually the fault's been squarely in my court.

Originally posted by Moppie
did any male here undersand any of what dear Tangi just said? :confused: :confused:


:D


Basic translationof Tangies post
We don't know what we want, only what we don't want. And we woouldn't tell you anyway.

Just joking Tangie
:D

Jiminy Christmas!!! I give you a nice, drawn-out post that thoroughly explained why we women are so messed up, and all I get is crap!!! :p

In the words of Mr. Brown: Good Grief!!!

http://www.gamers-forums.com/smilies/otn/angels/newangel.gif

I understood:)

Originally posted by replicant_008
That assumes they all like the same thing - which is buzzzzzz....WRONG.

I don't profess to figuring out any of them... which doesn't preclude me from trying to meet more of them. And DOHCron, as Steel suggested there are plenty of fish in the sea (something like a billion of them probably) so keep looking. I haven't found the perfect specimen (for me anyway) but it hasn't stopped me looking...

Good Luck Dude...

I think steel was saying its kinda impossible to catagorize them all as impossible as winning consecutive nobel prizes...... but if that wasn't it....and i totally misread it then yea your right..... :huh:
What do I know I'm in love with my car.... :D

Originally posted by Moppie
did any male here undersand any of what dear Tangi just said? :confused: :confused:
naa, I don't even read posts by members of the opposite sex anyway. :D




but anyway, if ya don't like the chicks in the place you're at now, go back to where they were diggin' ya. :)

Originally posted by saturntangerine
I've been avoiding this long enough, seeing as how I'm the only female in view for miles...

We know what we don't want. That's the easy part. The rest of it gets stickier as you go along. Sometimes for the sake of stubbornness we go after what we don't want anyway (don't ask, I'm not at liberty to say why). Othertimes we grow up and look for someone who doesn't have what we don't want. This is not a fun process. It's harder to find qualities that someone doesn't have than it is to find qualities that someone does have.

Don't try to make yourself fit into some preconceived, magazine image of a mold. It simply doesn't work that way. Besides, if you want a girl who likes cars, she won't be reading the latest issue of Cosmo on what fragrance and style is tres chic for the month. I haven't read a beauty magazine for months, maybe years.

Be yourself. You'll fit someone's idea of "worthy" and you'll be far happier than if you tried to play the role of an angry punk dude. In all honesty, this is so cliche and yet so entirely true it is sickening... WAIT. Just sit and wait.
it is definetly nice to have a woman's point of view thanks much.;)

We dont know what we want. For example, I want a guy who is simple but complex. My suggestion to you is to be yourself. Dont pretend to be something that you're not just for somegirl. You're just gonna get your heart broken. Its true that "a lie told many times beomes reality." but You wouldnt like reality if you werent yourself. You'll find the right girl. It just takes time. In the mean time, have fun. Enjoy single life while you have it, some of the best parties of your life.;)

lol, what i WAS saying is: don't activley look. I'm serious too. Since me and Crysta broke up, i was looking for a girl, and for 7 or 6, (can't remember) months, it never happened. The day i finally gave up and was just me, i had 3 of them after me. I gotta beat them off with a stick now! Now im dating Krista (yes, that DOES get confusing, as well as my roomate being Eric, and me being Marek...) and she's really cool. And for me too. Don't expect to find the hottest girl that's interested in your stuff. Usually the drop dead gorgeous ones are airheads. Mine isnt the prettiest, but she still is quite so. At least to me, and that's all that matters. And she's in the military, so we share the same interests. aaaand.... My girlfriend thinks my Rex is sexy, hehe.

take it at face value:)

Originally posted by Moppie
did any male here undersand any of what dear Tangi just said? :confused: :confused:

:D

Sure - I can read english. However I have no idea what she meant :D :(













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The ladies like me! You're all screwed!

Originally posted by snowboarder
The ladies like me! You're all screwed! the ladies like you, and yet I'm the one getting screwed, works for me :D

That’s really weird. If I liked a guy it wouldn’t matter what he was or wasn’t into. I’d like him for who he was. I really hate fakeness though, so if he was trying to portray some sort of image that really wasn’t him then that would definitely be a put off.

Originally posted by kicker1_solo
the ladies like you, and yet I'm the one getting screwed, works for me :D j00r lucky I'm not in washington, you can have the ones up there...

Originally posted by snowboarder
The ladies like me! You're all screwed!


no no no

jesus loves you, everyone else thinks you're a c**t :p:D

Originally posted by darkness



no no no

jesus loves you, everyone else thinks you're a c**t :p:D LOL! funny thing is, when I see people jogging at night or whenever I just yell out, "Jesus loves you!"

Originally posted by snowboarder
LOL! funny thing is, when I see people jogging at night or whenever I just yell out, "Jesus loves you!"


So that was you!!!:mad:

Originally posted by snowboarder
j00r lucky I'm not in washington, you can have the ones up there... lol, I got the only good looking one around here, so you can have the rest :D

All I have to say is we never know what we want until we can't have it. For some reason, we want exactly what we can't have, or atleast I think so. For example, I don't know if it's happened to anybody else but when I was single, it was like I was invisible but once I got in a relationship, I couldn't avoid prospects.

Originally posted by Neutrino



So that was you!!!:mad: LOL, I only say it to girls because my friend usually says something mean like Keep running!
I also spice it up a bit with lookin good, keep it up, and you're great!

Originally posted by snowboarder
LOL, I only say it to girls because my friend usually says something mean like Keep running!
I also spice it up a bit with lookin good, keep it up, and you're great!

Aren't j00 just Mr Caring:finger: