I'm about to kick someones ass.

Goddamn it. My friend S who i've known since she was about 7 years old (she's 20 now) is mixed up with this guy, who's a complete abusive dirtbag. She dated him twice and broke up with him because he turned out to be the asshole that me and a bunch of her friends warned her about. Now he's playing some goddamn games and my fuse is getting short. First it was the out of control jealousy and verbal abuse. HE strings her along being nice and toying with her heart and then goes ballistic on her when he finds out she's been withing 100' of any other man in the world (even though they aren't together). Her friends and I and her family have told her repeatedly to just not answer his calls or anything and avoid him. She's only been heeding the advice half the time (I blame her a little for this because she's being a stupid woman about this). She moved out of her house to a condo on saturday, and i helped her move. I told her not to give him her new address because he has a history of stalking her and going ballistic on her when he sees a car he doesn't recognize in her driveway (real winner, eh?). Well she didn't. She didn't even tell him when she was moving. Yet somehow, thorugh lies and deceit he got her address and payed her a visit. Apparently, he forced his way inside, broke some of her roommates things, pushed her up against the wall hard, kicked the dog, all crazy stuff. I told her to get a restraining order on him but she's being stupid aobut it again.

I think my friends and I are going to pay him a visit soon. This shit has been going on for too long and I'm sick of it. I want to stop this before she gets hurt or killed, and she's too weak to do anything proactive about it, if she's not making it worse by continuing to talk to this guy.

What the fuck?! why are women so attracted to these insecure guys that have obvious control and abuse problems?! And even after they're getting abused, they still go back to these scumbags.

Goddamn I'm so mad right now. I can barely type i'm shaking with anger. I'm not one to resort to violence normally, but this is really getting me worked up.

/rant

Women like that think they can change the "bad boy" and domesticate him - and that his current violent tendencies can be focused on protecting her from unwanted attention, instead of turned on them in a jealous rage.

After you're finished kicking this clown, I would kick your friend S too for being such a naive stupid bitch.

:2cents:

Tell her to get an alarm system, get several really big dogs, and get her a taser or some other small firearm to keep in her house. If she won't do any of that, just get a coiuple of your friends and beat the crap out of that dude with the largest bludgeoning weapon you can find.

Or you can try to get her room mate to get a restraining order against him. And be sure to tell your friend that he's a total bastard and he will never change, no matter what she does.

Or you can try to get her room mate to get a restraining order against him. And be sure to tell your friend that he's a total bastard and he will never change, no matter what she does.

Not MY friend, remember that.

, and get her a taser or some other small firearm to keep in her house.

Why small? Bigger is better :2cents:

As previously stated, whoop the piss out of him, repeat as necessary.

I'm a dude, but I have to agree with what's been said. Guys like that don't deserve the women they get. It pisses me off. I still don't believe that women actually want the "nice" guy; they always want the tough guy, asshole, scum, etc. WTF? Show me a woman who wants a nice guy.

P.S. Get the restraining order! and show that guy for who he REALLY is. Good luck!!