Have never Hit up a girl in the clubs!!!!

Well anyway going out every Thur/Sat getting crunk with friends, going hard on Party pills and Alcohol, have a good time out on the town with my friends who are pimps!! honestly WTF every fucking night they get some chick hit up, sweet awesome, but they expect the same of me, I don’t know, I always get hit up by chicks in town, guys I don’t know think I’m the damn pimp so there is no problem there its just that I don’t feal the urge for any sexual intimacy , with any of them, no matter how pretty. What the fuck is wrong with me, I’ve even had this chick who’s been checking me out for the past two nights I’ve been out, who I think is damn hott and who I got introduced to even, so I started dancing with her then she started playing hard to get then I was like WTF fuck this I’m out. I don’t know, I’m having some major issues here, anyone with any Ideas. I don’t know, I just feel out of place in the clubs these days, feel too old, I don't even feal like getting dirty with these girls, just someone to hold and cuddle, fuck my freinds are starting to think I'm gay lol ( I'm def not FYI) maybe looking for something more than this city has to offer.

i was thinkin what ur friends were thinkin....lol, but seriously, maybe the clubs arent ur type. ive been in that situation before when i was more relationship orientated, and felt EXACTLY the same way. i actually looked down on my friends for playin these girls! id say, save your money and find a nice girl at work, out in public, whatever. if you do get a nice girl, your friends wont get mad if u skip out on the so called festivities... otherwise, your gonna have to get drunk enough to convince yourself that u have to live a little and take some chances. theres nothing wrong with picking up a girl at the bar and having fun with her, cause chances are thats what shes lookin for also. if its not your style, just be yourself and tell ur boyz to STFU!lol

it seems to me like you have reached that point in your life where you are tired of partying and have actually learned that what you really want in life. i am slowly reaching that point also. my friends wanna go clubbing every thursday, friday, saturday night. it's boring. the same music, the same deal night after night. go out with them but make sure they know you won't have any fun and they will stop bugging you.

Yea I guess its a phase and I hope I damn well get over it soon, cause I want my mojo stick back damn it!!!

You need to check out the restaurant scene. I'm not joking.

There's good food to be eaten out there.

so you go to clubs and turn chicks down?
Maybe your going through a gay phase, I mean you are kinda preaty for a guy, you got the whole "I look like a young Prince" thing going.
And your hair, OMG how much mousse do you use on that sex-fro Mr. John Stamos?

Im just fakking with ya bro. I think your getting older and need to settle down a bit. I had your same issues when I was your age and I feel ya man. After a while the one-night-adventure gets old and you want more meaning.
SRS:Y Im fucking luck I never got any STDs from how much bed hopping I did. but eventually you want someone to give them selves to you emotionaly rather then sexually.
I say good on ya mate that you feel this way. It shows you got more character then your friends.
Youl laugh at them when they get to be 40 and still single.

Get off the BZP, it fucks with your libido.

Eh. The club scene aint for everybody. I used to HATE the club before I went to college. And even there I learned to lie it only because I usually knew the people hosting. And in my case, I tend to not like club girls unless I knew them from somewhere else first. My usual intentions for club girls are not wholesome, and now that I consider myself finished with bed hopping, the club has lost its appeal to me. Seems like you're in need of a woman and not a girl...

yeah like everyone else said, your growing up and realising that if you dont find the right girl soon, your gonna be doing this the rest of your life. The good girls go fast. The ones that are left after about 25 are the ones that have problems. Me personally i never got into the club scene or anything like that. Ive only had one, one night stand and afterwards i felt so shitty about it. The girl was pretty decent, not a bomb shell but not fat and ugly thats for sure. I knew her a whole 3 hours before i hooked up with her. The next day i just felt ashamed of myself. Dont know why, but i did.

But trust me, ive meet the guys that were big whores and continued to be big whores, then when there 30 they realise that all there friends are married have kids and are raising families. So they try to get a good woman, but cant find one.

Thanks guys, good advise.

gaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy


jk but honestly i understand what you mean, i don't like going to clubs all that much, partly because i can't dance worth shit sober and i only get worse with alcohol, and partly because doing some random chick that i don't know just doesn't interest me all that much. although i'll probably get to like it more as i go i'm still really young and i'm only starting my university life so i'll most likely get into it more (i'm 18 right now).

although i could really go for a girlfriend right now, the only problem is the time commitment. i've got to balance school, schoolwork, socialising, sports (varsity rowing team, working out every day except sundays) and homework. if i threw a girlfriend in the mix right now it'd probably mess up my school life, i don't have the organisational skills to handle all that. plus, i really really really love rowing, i think i'd choose rowing over a girlfriend, by that i mean i'd choose rowing over starting a relationship if i had to choose, if i had a relationship i wouldn't citch my girlfriend for rowing. besides, there are plenty of hot rowing girls.

sorry for the rant, it's getting late and i tend to drone on about random stuff. im off to bed

New Plymouth club scene?

*supresses a giggle, remembers he lives in Stratford and is too old to party,makes mental note not to go back to the Mill, ever*

Do you seriously believe that you are going to find a half decent woman from the inbred,wall-eyed, buck teethed banjo pickin' bloodstock in this particular corner of God's rectum?

Since they lowered the drinking age in this great nation, the 'club scene' is more like a badly organised Blue Light Disco than a place for adult entertainment.18 year olds competing to see who can swear the loudest,drink the most,piss in the most creative location, and fight with as many passing pedestrians as possible.......and the men are even worse.

Free advice from a fellow resident of the hell-hole of the Pacific....if you want to score a viable relationship with a woman who has less facial hair than her brothers, leave town, or try internet dating.Taranaki women are the fugliest f*cked-uppest freaks this side of the Equator.

if i had a relationship i wouldn't citch my girlfriend for rowing. besides, there are plenty of hot rowing girls.
not only that but if you are a serious rower, you've got rowing hands, and girls that arent rowing girls dont dig that too much.



i've noticed something like this going on recently too.

seems like i remember that i used to be a lot hornier and tried to get girls all over the place. now it seems that i am a little more concentrated on school and life in general. not that its bad, but i miss it...

not only that but if you are a serious rower, you've got rowing hands, and girls that arent rowing girls dont dig that too much
most girls don't notice unless i show them. plus i've been off the water for about a month now so the calluses are softer, my hands used to be horrible but they're ok now.

there is a guy in one of my engineering classes. he just started rowing at the beginning of the year. he had the WORST blisters. since i dont row, my only callouses are from weight lifting.

weightlifting calluses aren't that bad. the thing i don't like about my calluses going away a bit is that i get blisters when i get back on the water. they aren't as bad as when i just started but after being off of the water for a few months, your hands need to roughen up a bit.

thing about weight lifting that i hate is that new weights have really sharp ridges on the grips...

better get back on topic tho.

I like the ones with the little bumps, don't konw what ridges you're talking about, haven't seen them yet.

anyways as for getting back on topic, i met this girl, at an engineering party of all places lol, and we were both pretty drunk, i was more drunkerer and alot more stoneder, and we talked and made out alot. anyways, she turned me down for sex for whatever reason, i think it's either because she's catholic (not sure if she is but the friend who brought her is catholic) or because she knew that the friend she was going home with wasn't going to let me come (pun intended) because she's catholic. either that or she just doesn't want to have sex with someone she's never met.

but anyways she seemed pretty cool and i got her number today (party was friday but i didn't have a pen and was too drunk to remember to look in the kitchen for a pen, it was a house party) and we'll see how that goes.

so my suggestion if you go to clubs with friends would be to look for a girl that you can sort of sit down and have a few drinks with and talk to, since you don't seem to want to hook up at the club you could at least try to get a friend or girlfriend there so that you're doing something (or someone lol)

you know? i seem to have the WORST luck in those situations.
i can never seem to get anywhere and just end up staggering my way home drunk and horny.
whats the big secret?

i seem to be better off sober. usually... :banghead:

unless i'm really stoned, then i get really chill and feel good no matter what.
:iceslolan :grinyes: :iceslolan :grinyes:

well i started talking to her before i got drunk, then i got trashed and stoned and sat down with her for a chat, sort of, i don't remember what we talked about, or if we talked at all. all i remember is having a smoke with her and her not believing that i don't smoke (which i don't, i tried a few puffs in junior high and hadn't smoked entire cigs until that night)

oh and the ridges...the ones around here have a sharp diamond cut pattern.

i tried to draw an ASCII picture but it got all jumbled up...

no idea, don't think i've encountered them, all i can think of are the ones with the little bumps and those are more comfortable to me.

hahah i've got a story like that... only worse.

i was at a big party last night before school starts, and was getting smashed.
i was a little drunk, and i saw this really hot girl and went over to talk.
she wasnt drinking that night, so it was a little akward at first, but the more i drank, the less akward it was... anyway, fast foreward to tomorrow night. i was at another party and saw her there. we were both a little drunk, so i went up to talk to her. my judgement was a little lacking, so the first thing that came out of my mouth was
"Hey... You're still hot"
obviously, that didnt go over too well.

aaaah, the things i do when i've had too much jungle juice...

the worst i've said is "you're drunk enough to have sex with me" that's after drinking WAAAAAY too much and being bent over a toilet for about a half hour puking my guts out.

did the puking come before or after the "you're drunk enough to have sex with me"...
if it was after, then its her problem.
if it was before, then its your problem. puke breath is a definite mood killer.

well the night went like this:
predrank enough that i was really really drunk
went to a bar where i proceeded to drink a shitload of different drinks (not good on the stomach), enough to get me pissed drunk normally but i was already gone
got back to campus where we ate
puked in public bathroom
went to a guy's room to hang out and drink more (spent half an hour wrapped around the toilet)
went back to her room where i used my sexy pickup line
pulled her down as she was leaning over me, she tripped and hit her head on the wall lol (not my proudest moment, she still wont let me live it down, it happened in the second week of school)
then somehow ended up in her roommates bed on top of her, didn't have sex i remember that much, i just don't remember why we were both in that bed.

and as for puke breath not being attractive, i hadn't eaten all day (other than a banana and a piece of cake) and went over to a friends house where me, the friend (girl), another guy and another girl who had told me she wanted to sleep with me, all got pissed drunk. i didn't have anything in my stomach so i ended up puking alot. anyways, once i was done i rinsed my mouth out with water, went downstairs, made out with the girl who wanted me, and that's where it stops being PG13.

sounds fun. i hate puking tho.

i normally hate puking but i honestly don't care when i'm drunk. i barely feel anything and the taste goes away prety quckly... until the next morning, that's when it's the worst.

its that lingering smell that gets me.

i dont mind puking when im retarded either, and it usually makes me feel better the next day. the worst is not puking and having the alchohol sit in ur stomach all night, then waking up and puking. puking while drunk>puking while hungover...

Funny phase cause i am going the samething also. I hope it is just a phase because i am still in my early twenties..........

i dont mind puking when im retarded either, and it usually makes me feel better the next day. the worst is not puking and having the alchohol sit in ur stomach all night, then waking up and puking. puking while drunk>puking while hungover...

the best solution is to eat a big bowl of pasta before you go out drinking. it absorbs the alcohol, meaning you can drink more and also the effects are so bad the next day. the thing that really gives you hangovers isn't alcohol, it's the other drink in alcoholic drinks. things like vodka give "better" hangovers due to having less crap in them. things like alco-pops are full of additives and stuff so they make you feel really screwed up the next day.

expensive alcohol tends to not give hangovers. the cheap shit does.

expensive alcohol tends to not give hangovers. the cheap shit does.

my point exactly. cheap shit has more additives (alco-pops are full of flavourings and that) it's all chemicals. stuff like cognac, wine, vodka, it's got more natural content.

If you drink a case of wine in one night, you WILL be hung over.

I also heard mixing your alcohol with sugary drinks tends to make hangovers worse. That's why I drink my Jack straight up :smokin:

If you drink a case of wine in one night, you WILL be hung over.

if you drank a case of wine you'd have a serious case of alcohol poisoning.

well they arent additaves, they are impurities. the expensive stuff filters ot our and uses higher quality stuff.

i've heard the opposite about sugary drinks... BUT, they cause you to slowly grow a vagina...

i'll take the hangover.

i've heard the opposite about sugary drinks... BUT, they cause you to slowly grow a vagina...
Well if its gonna grow somewhere I can make good use of it then I don't mind.

I'd probably have to learn to write with my left hand though...

Well if its gonna grow somewhere I can make good use of it then I don't mind.

I'd probably have to learn to write with my left hand though...
:uhoh:

:rofl: :grinyes:

Kevin!!!!

ok, so the additives are bad, but sugar? i usually have red bull and grey goose. i think if i didnt have like 10 of em, id be ok. i usually drink a half pint before i even go out too! keep in mind i weigh like 135, when i was 18 i used to puke off the halfpint! now my tolerance is way up, i usually stop drinking when i run outta money. last week i spent 70 bucks after the half pint...

I don't know what the chemical explanation for why the sugar promotes hangovers, but that's what I heard at some point in college. I don't like sugary drinks anyway so it doesn't really affect me.

my guess is dehydration, thats the main reason for hangovers.....

my guess is dehydration, thats the main reason for hangovers.....

that was exactly my guess also. I mainly have hangovers that way. Especially when i drink until the room seems like it put me in a dryer.....all spinning.

it's weird that i haven't had a hangover (other than a mild headache that goes away within 10 minutes) since the first time i drank. it's weird it doesn't matter what i drink, whether i drink cheat beer or expensive beer, cheap hard alcohol or expensive hard alcohol, mixed drinks, or any combination of those. and it also doesn't matter if i drink water or not while i'm drinking alcohol, i just don't seem to get hangovers.

I used to be like that til I was about 20, then one night I was drinking 99 apples (disgusting btw) and doing shots of it :disappoin and I woke up with a crazy hangover.

Right now I'm still drunk from last night. Patron is so great...

And more on topic: I got some girls number in the club last night. ButI don't remember what she looks like, I'm not sure if I remember her name, and there's a new entry in my phone that says 'No Name'. Thats what my phone does when you save a # without saving a name. I don't really have a reason to call her anyway though.

if she was really hot u'd probably remember!lol