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fairladyz_gt-r
08-28-2005, 08:56 AM
I was wondering...

Why do girls never care for the guy that care the most for her?

Why do girls get so piss if a guy is always nice to her, but accidently flick off once?

and Why do they love the guy that treat her like shit most of the time and only be nice to her once in awhile?

why do girls always fall in love on summer camp, just because they guy act nice for 2~3 days???

while there someone home that has been nice to her ever since they met and she don't give?

do girls ment that.."if u wanna get me be mean to me"?

I just wanna know..

Cyprus106
08-28-2005, 11:25 AM
Questions of the ages. Answer: You'll never understand the opposite sex.

Ask dr Phil

imtheoneandonlyD
08-28-2005, 11:51 AM
If your going to summer camp you still dont know what love is.

ec437
08-28-2005, 12:23 PM
If your going to summer camp you still dont know what love is.

ahahahahha.

I definitely have to agree.

93rollaracer
08-28-2005, 12:25 PM
If your going to summer camp you still dont know what love is.

:rofl: Good answer.

Mediocrity
08-28-2005, 12:42 PM
Here's something you should take heed to now, while you're young and still learning.

Girls are fucking insane.

xokayxo
08-28-2005, 04:05 PM
Why do girls never care for the guy that care the most for her?
--that is an entirely stupid and untrue question. it's pretty rare to truly feel exactly the same way as someone else does about you. especially if the "someone else" is someone of the opposite sex

Why do girls get so piss if a guy is always nice to her, but accidently flick off once?
--because if you're always nice and then "flick off" you're not being consistent with the niceness and, duh, we like it when guys are nice to us. always.

and Why do they love the guy that treat her like shit most of the time and only be nice to her once in awhile?
--that is another entirely stupid and untrue question. but if a girl truly loves (this does not apply to abusive relationships, that is a totally different situation) a guy who's a dick to her and STAYS with him, she's stupid for being with him in the first place.

why do girls always fall in love on summer camp, just because they guy act nice for 2~3 days???
--love does not happen at summer camp. to prevent a girl from falling in love with you at summer camp, either: A. dont go to summer camp, or B. dont be nice for 2-3 days

while there someone home that has been nice to her ever since they met and she don't give?
--what???

do girls ment that.."if u wanna get me be mean to me"?
--some girls like that. but then you end up being one of those dick guys that "treat her like shit most of the time and only be nice to her once in awhile." so don't fall for it.


yeah maybe girls are insane, but most guys arent much better...

93rollaracer
08-28-2005, 04:58 PM
yeah maybe girls are insane, but most guys arent much better...


Psshhhh...that's not what the voices tell me.

jcsaleen
08-28-2005, 05:42 PM
I don't even bother if she comes onto to me then it's all good (mostly happens) other wise... I'm an effortless bastard....

ghetto7o2azn
08-28-2005, 09:34 PM
I don't even bother if she comes onto to me then it's all good (mostly happens) other wise... I'm an effortless bastard....

same...

as my father once told me

the 10 rules to help understand women
1. you will never understand women, so forget everything after one...

do i need to list the rest?

Zachp911
08-28-2005, 10:43 PM
Here's something you should take heed to now, while you're young and still learning.

Girls are fucking insane.

I have much experience w/ girls, and yes... they are fucking insane.

One thing to keep in mind: girls are immature until they reach age 18+...

Rally Sport
08-28-2005, 10:58 PM
:iagree: thats why you dont get in a serious relationship in highschool and expect it to last.

Zachp911
08-28-2005, 11:12 PM
:iagree: thats why you dont get in a serious relationship in highschool and expect it to last.

Well in some cases the relationships do last, in some cases they dont. Its more or less a win-win situation.

Steel
08-28-2005, 11:20 PM
THREADJACK!

93rolla, you are my favorite, because you have Metallica in your sig.

TheStang00
08-29-2005, 12:30 AM
I don't even bother if she comes onto to me then it's all good (mostly happens) other wise... I'm an effortless bastard....

thats the way to do it...

fairladyz_gt-r
08-29-2005, 05:15 AM
i guess screw them and leave them seem to be the enlighted path after all

Jimster
08-29-2005, 06:32 AM
If I knew how females worked, then I'd be one hell of a unique man. Or just plain gay.

YogsVR4
08-29-2005, 08:43 AM
Sounds like someone is growing up to ask all the questions that he'll never get answered. Welcome to life.













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fairladyz_gt-r
08-29-2005, 08:45 AM
So i suppose i am like the guy in the Island that keep asking question and is pissing everyone else off

Rally Sport
08-29-2005, 08:48 AM
Nah dont think you're pissing everyone off in the island, its just that we dont know the answer, and when girls give you the answer it isnt true! :lol:

fairladyz_gt-r
08-29-2005, 08:50 AM
, and when girls give you the answer it isnt true! :lol:

hahahahaha i suppose they just don't amit it too

twospirits
08-29-2005, 07:37 PM
Girls in AF plz answer this.....There are girls in AF? :sly:

TS out

Ridenour
08-29-2005, 09:17 PM
I was wondering...

I'm obviously not a chick (though I know some of you will beg to differ :icon16:) but I like to pay attention to this kind of shit, so I'll give some of these a shot.

Why do girls never care for the guy that care the most for her?

Because usually the guy that "cares for her the most" is an over-bearing wuss bag that is giving her wayyy to much attention in his "caring" and ends up pushing her away because she realizes she totally owns him, and he's no longer a challenge.

Why do girls get so piss if a guy is always nice to her, but accidently flick off once?

I don't really get what you mean by "flick off once". As far as them getting pissed when you're nice all the time, it's because, like I said before, the guy is coming across as an over-needy wussbag that likes to worship her/ kiss her ass/ suck up to her all the time, and she realizes she owns him, and she has all the power, and he's not holding power as a man.

and Why do they love the guy that treat her like shit most of the time and only be nice to her once in awhile?

Because the guy that "treats her like shit" is usually a dominant guy with lots of balls. Given he comes across as a jackass to us guys, but there is an amount of manliness associated with many jackasses, do the fact that they are usually independent, powerful leaders who obviously don't need other people's approval = strength.

why do girls always fall in love on summer camp, just because they guy act nice for 2~3 days???

Because they were too tired of getting off with their flute while at band camp :icon16:

while there someone home that has been nice to her ever since they met and she don't give?

Because that person has been too damn nice, come across as over-needy, and has lost all challenge / manliness in her eyes. The guy at band camp is a new challenege, and potentially has bigger balls because he didn't spend all the time "ever since they met" kissing her ass and giving her too much attention.

do girls ment that.."if u wanna get me be mean to me"?

Yeh. They usually mean it. Show them you have some balls. Step up to the plate and show them that you are a challenging male. Bust their chops. Be a challenge. Show them you aren't affected / intimidated by them, and will give them a hard time just like you give anyone else. Don't be an easy wuss that compliments her ass 24/7 - she'll know she has all power over you; you'll never be a challenege; she'll know she can have you whenever she wants you. People don't want what they can readily have. People want what they can't have. Become something she can't have. It's the same reason you may not want a bicycle, but you want a Ferrari. Think about it.

King Of Crunk
08-29-2005, 11:38 PM
M@@d TyT3 ADVIc3 skilLZ YOE!!!.......yeah dude....you gotta show some backbone and show them what's up....don't be a total asshole....just give em a challenge....

fairladyz_gt-r
08-30-2005, 04:32 AM
ah...i see

pickle
08-30-2005, 05:02 AM
Listen to Ridenour, he's wise and can teach you many things (although I actually had to ask Ssom if Ridenour was a girl or guy). Pretty much everything he said is true cept for the whole summer camp thing. Who the hell over 12 goes to Summer Camp?

fairladyz_gt-r
08-30-2005, 05:06 AM
well Taiwanese do...is more like a vacation trip u just spend money and relax....our parent has a custom to sending kid on vacation

pickle
08-30-2005, 05:24 AM
Oh I'm sorry. You thought I actually cared?

Ssom
08-30-2005, 05:26 AM
Isn't Taiwan ages away from Thailand? I think you should be going for girls a little closer, try not to stoop down to a hooker though, I've heard from mates that quantity is more important than quality out your way (For hookers, Thai girls that aren't hookers are hot, I think the problem with hookers stems from most of them pretending to be female).

fairladyz_gt-r
08-30-2005, 05:36 AM
Three hours flight mate....and there's alot of Taiwanese here. and...no i didn't think u care..but since so many ppl ask i want to clearlify(sp) i used summer camp because i don't really know how to put it...

Ridenour
08-30-2005, 09:08 AM
So fairlady Z, it turns out this "guy" we were referring to the whole time is actually you?? :icon16: - it's alright man. Every human male wonders these kinds of things at some point in his life.

Thanks for the support of my post, guys.

M@@d TyT3 ADVIc3 skilLZ YOE!!!.......
:icon16: :grinno: :lol2: :biggrin: :rofl: :) :grinyes:

fairladyz_gt-r
08-30-2005, 11:08 AM
Well yes and no...i recently try the be mean shit...and man it work like a charm....however, when the girl u really like come along it become hard to act shitty toward her...so i was just wondering why is it like this....

anyway thanks mates ;)

Ridenour
08-30-2005, 05:10 PM
....however, when the girl u really like come along it become hard to act shitty toward her...so i was just wondering why is it like this....

It's because you place too much importance on her. You place value on her, so you don't want to "mess it up". You are too afraid of losing her. With other girls, they don't hold as much importance in your life, so you're more willing to joke around / be cocky and ballsy - however when "the girl u really like" comes along, you have a tendancy to act wussy around her, because she instantly assumes a high value in your life. This disables you from being cocky / manly. The main challenge you face is to remind yourself IT DOESNT MATTER. SHE doesn't matter. There's billions more fish in the pond. Statiscally, one woman should mean nothing to you. You cannot be worried about "messing up". Even if you do mess up; you need to move on instantly. It is guys that stay attached and keep trying to get the same girl back that suck at life. Every guy needs to learn who is important, and who isn't; and when it's time to move on.

King Of Crunk
08-30-2005, 05:23 PM
It's because you place too much importance on her. You place value on her, so you don't want to "mess it up". You are too afraid of losing her. With other girls, they don't hold as much importance in your life, so you're more willing to joke around / be cocky and ballsy - however when "the girl u really like" comes along, you have a tendancy to act wussy around her, because she instantly assumes a high value in your life. This disables you from being cocky / manly. The main challenge you face is to remind yourself IT DOESNT MATTER. SHE doesn't matter. There's billions more fish in the pond. Statiscally, one woman should mean nothing to you. You cannot be worried about "messing up". Even if you do mess up; you need to move on instantly. It is guys that stay attached and keep trying to get the same girl back that suck at life. Every guy needs to learn who is important, and who isn't; and when it's time to move on.
to sum it all up....be selfish....you have time to worry about others when you're older....when you're young have all the fun you can before you're an adult and actually have to act like one....i know i'm putting off being an adult (marriage) until i'm in my late 20s.... :smile:

Ridenour
08-30-2005, 05:37 PM
to sum it all up....be selfish....you have time to worry about others when you're older....when you're young have all the fun you can before you're an adult and actually have to act like one....i know i'm putting off being an adult (marriage) until i'm in my late 20s.... :smile:

Exactly. You will have the rest of your life to be committed to / try to please and get approval from one woman. These are words that shouldn't even exist when you're still young and sexually aggressive. You need to enjoy being single, and don't limit yourself to anyone. This doesn't necessarily mean being a "player" or anything; it just means being a young, active, indepedent powerful male, and not stopping for or succumbing to anything.

xokayxo
08-30-2005, 06:07 PM
Ridenour = the man. or woman. err.....


anyway, girls generally dig guys who take charge, which is why they like guys that are "mean". girls also love a challenge. you know, Ridenour... write a book. i think you'd save a lot of people a lot of time and heartache.

littleannie
08-31-2005, 04:55 AM
why do you form constructive sentences so hard to understand, english please

Ridenour
08-31-2005, 06:13 AM
Ridenour = the man. or woman. err.....


anyway, girls generally dig guys who take charge, which is why they like guys that are "mean". girls also love a challenge. you know, Ridenour... write a book. i think you'd save a lot of people a lot of time and
heartache.

LOL :icon16: thanks xokayxo :rofl: - That's a hell of a compliment when someone tells you you should write a book :biggrin:
This is stuff us as males are suppose to be born with. It's pretty sad that nowadays everybody has to be told what to do. I just wish everybody got it. O well; I've learned half my shit through "messing up", which I now don't even consider messing up. I think most guys have to follow the same route to figuire things out.

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fairladyz_gt-r
08-31-2005, 08:25 AM
Exactly. You will have the rest of your life to be committed to / try to please and get approval from one woman. These are words that shouldn't even exist when you're still young and sexually aggressive. You need to enjoy being single, and don't limit yourself to anyone. This doesn't necessarily mean being a "player" or anything; it just means being a young, active, indepedent powerful male, and not stopping for or succumbing to anything.

Thx mate ;)

xokayxo
08-31-2005, 12:00 PM
This is stuff us as males are suppose to be born with. It's pretty sad that nowadays everybody has to be told what to do. I just wish everybody got it.

YOU wish everybody got it!?!! seriously!!!! girls are the ones that have to deal with idiot guys who arent psychic and dont know exactly what we want. then again, guys have to deal with insane girls. hmm... i'm sure there's a balance somewhere....

BigBL87
08-31-2005, 02:51 PM
[QUOTE=xokayxo]
and Why do they love the guy that treat her like shit most of the time and only be nice to her once in awhile?
--that is another entirely stupid and untrue question. but if a girl truly loves (this does not apply to abusive relationships, that is a totally different situation) a guy who's a dick to her and STAYS with him, she's stupid for being with him in the first place. [QUOTE]

I would agree that the question was kind of confrontational, but its not really stupid. In my experience, the girls I like usually end up with guys that treat them like crap. For instance, the girl I like right now (she likes me back as well) lives 3 hours away when we're at college, so we decided not to date for now. Anyway, shortly after we talk about that, she went off and made out w/ a guy at a party, which is totally out of her character. The guy didn't talk to her for a week and she was pining over him and getting mad, then he finally started talking to her and they're making out like every day, and they aren't even dating. That might not be odd to everyone, but both her and I come from a conservative Christian background, so its kind of odd. It seems so odd that she will go off and make out w/ some guy who is a complete dick to her and then pine over him. That was kind of venting, but my point is, I kind of see the guy's point, girls dont seem to like me if I'm caring and nice, I have to be a jerk to get girls interested it seems.

Ridenour
08-31-2005, 03:20 PM
YOU wish everybody got it!?!! seriously!!!! girls are the ones that have to deal with idiot guys who arent psychic and dont know exactly what we want. then again, guys have to deal with insane girls. hmm... i'm sure there's a balance somewhere....

Yeh I know... I'm sorry you got stuck with bein a chick :grinno: :evillol:

But yes, in all honesty, I agree that there is a balance. You have to deal with shitloads of wussy guys pursuing you 24/7, and us guys that women find attractive :smokin: have to deal with tons of chicks that have issues / are weird, insane, bitchy, ect. wanting us to have their babies; shit like that... So I guess in the end it all sort of balances itself out.

ricer_h8er
09-05-2005, 10:10 PM
If your going to summer camp you still dont know what love is.

Thats for sure!

Grow up kid! Stop trying to find "love" when your evidently still young!
:screwy:

fairladyz_gt-r
09-06-2005, 03:54 AM
Ya i know....sweet 17, and u ain't much older

ricer_h8er
09-06-2005, 11:03 PM
one year makes so much difference tho! i've learned a lot about "love" in a year

XeVeNskyLiNE
09-06-2005, 11:35 PM
Ridenour's my new daddy, haha.

Yea that nice shit just doesnt cut it anymore and it used to confuse the hell out of me (recent event, blah blah). I just never understood why a girl would like that idiot guy who think's he's "cool" because he goes out and drinks and wears polo shirts with his collar popped, lol. Now I'm just convinced I gotta worry about myself and not some girl that'll come and go. Its my Senior year in high school and I've got some serious decisions to make (college, agh!) and etc.. So thnx Ridenour, one more male has been..."converted", haha.

imtheoneandonlyD
09-07-2005, 12:46 AM
You dont even have to be a jerk or mean. Just say it how it is. To many times guys that really want a girl will be overly nice and show way to much attention. If some girl did that to me i would just ignore her.

With my gf im generally always nice, but when something pisses me off i dont let it slide. You have to show your not an overly passive person as they tend to get walked all over and used more of the time.

Be nice, just dont let her step over the line.

XeVeNskyLiNE
09-07-2005, 04:48 PM
Yea ofcourse, not a jerk, but not a little fan boy either. Its almost like you have to act uninterested, lol.

-> Mason <-
09-07-2005, 06:26 PM
Ridenhour is down with the bitches and the hoes...

fairladyz_gt-r
09-08-2005, 03:25 AM
Ridenour's my new daddy, haha.

Yea that nice shit just doesnt cut it anymore and it used to confuse the hell out of me (recent event, blah blah). I just never understood why a girl would like that idiot guy who think's he's "cool" because he goes out and drinks and wears polo shirts with his collar popped, lol. Now I'm just convinced I gotta worry about myself and not some girl that'll come and go. Its my Senior year in high school and I've got some serious decisions to make (college, agh!) and etc.. So thnx Ridenour, one more male has been..."converted", haha.

sound like senior all around the world have the same life ei? and man i really don't get this polo shirt collar pop thing....i mean i love my lacoste but why pop the collar :eek7:

imtheoneandonlyD
09-08-2005, 03:33 AM
sound like senior all around the world have the same life ei? and man i really don't get this polo shirt collar pop thing....i mean i love my lacoste but why pop the collar :eek7:


I think anyone who "pops" their colar needs to be punched in the nose. Its the stupidest thing ive ever seen. Learn how to wear a damn polo shirt right or dont wear one at all.

xokayxo
09-08-2005, 03:58 AM
what is a "popped collar"???? :eek7:

imtheoneandonlyD
09-08-2005, 01:46 PM
On polo shirts, they have a colar right? right. A "popped" colar is where they dont fold it down but just leave it sticking straight up. It looks like pathetic trailer trash and everyone who does it should have the shit beaten out of them.

imtheoneandonlyD
09-08-2005, 01:51 PM
Go here too makes me sick (http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.missouri.edu/~saeqm2/popped_collar3.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.missouri.edu/~saeqm2/poppedcollars.htm&h=197&w=144&sz=12&tbnid=0k6MKiKgIC0J:&tbnh=98&tbnw=71&hl=en&start=2&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dpopped%2Bcollar%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3De n%26lr%3D%26safe%3Doff)

xokayxo
09-08-2005, 03:58 PM
oh that's hilarious. i wore a polo shirt the other day and my collar was most definitely not popped.

Muscletang
09-08-2005, 04:05 PM
Go here too makes me sick (http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.missouri.edu/~saeqm2/popped_collar3.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.missouri.edu/~saeqm2/poppedcollars.htm&h=197&w=144&sz=12&tbnid=0k6MKiKgIC0J:&tbnh=98&tbnw=71&hl=en&start=2&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dpopped%2Bcollar%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3De n%26lr%3D%26safe%3Doff)

I sadly know guys from school that would dress like that. Think they're hip and with it :grinno:

XeVeNskyLiNE
09-08-2005, 04:49 PM
Wow....if I saw a gay dressed like that I wouldn't know if I should luagh or just whoop his ass, lol. What I hate is those guys that wear the size-to-small polo shirts, rolled up sleeves, pants that are cut up on the bottom, flip flops, hobbit lookin ass feet, trucker hat, and last but not least, the huge super trooper sunglasses. I couldn't believe how many of them I saw last school year, I mean hell they all looked the same! but suspossedly the ladies like it, lol. you won't ever see me dressed like that tough...

Ridenour
09-08-2005, 05:51 PM
Ridenour = the man. or woman. err.....

Ridenour... write a book. i think you'd save a lot of people a lot of time and heartache.


Ridenour's my new daddy, haha.

Ridenhour is down with the bitches and the hoes...

:rofl: :lol: :evillol: LMAO! - Wow, I'm glad to see I have such a large, ever-expanding fan base.

Oh and no problem Xevenskline. I'm glad to hear that you finally "got it". It takes too many guys way to long to "get it." Keep up the good work.

ricer_h8er
09-08-2005, 09:57 PM
Wow....if I saw a gay dressed like that I wouldn't know if I should luagh or just whoop his ass, lol. What I hate is those guys that wear the size-to-small polo shirts, rolled up sleeves, pants that are cut up on the bottom, flip flops, hobbit lookin ass feet, trucker hat, and last but not least, the huge super trooper sunglasses. I couldn't believe how many of them I saw last school year, I mean hell they all looked the same! but suspossedly the ladies like it, lol. you won't ever see me dressed like that tough...

rofl :lol2: thats funny, i love your description! and i can not stand guys that are dressed like that! they make me wanna smack 'em hard!

xokayxo
09-09-2005, 03:47 AM
Wow....if I saw a gay dressed like that I wouldn't know if I should luagh or just whoop his ass, lol. What I hate is those guys that wear the size-to-small polo shirts, rolled up sleeves, pants that are cut up on the bottom, flip flops, hobbit lookin ass feet, trucker hat, and last but not least, the huge super trooper sunglasses. I couldn't believe how many of them I saw last school year, I mean hell they all looked the same! but suspossedly the ladies like it, lol. you won't ever see me dressed like that tough...
i learned today that straight guys who dress like gay guys are called "METROSEXUALS". it's apparently some weird mutation of heterosexuality. ...

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