Stupid women drivers...

I was driving through the Office Depot parking lot today, just minding my own, and I see this Xterra start backing up. Well, she stopped, so I assumed that she saw me and was going to let me go, seeing as how I had the right of way.

Whoa was I wrong. She kept backing out! As I was going. Well, I sped up to avoid getting my truck rammed, but to no avail. She totally fucked up the back left side of my truck.

As I get out of my truck to talk to her, she looks at me (oh yeah, she was like, a 20-year-old Abercrombie snotty rich stupid snob...) and says, "I was backing out!" with the hugest attitude in the world. :eek7:

I looked at her and said, "Yeah, and I was driving. And if I'm not mistaken, I had the right of way and you should have looked before you backed out."

She goes, "Yeah, but I WAS BACKING OUT!" And I said, "Is everyone supposed to stop when you feel like backing out?"

Well, feeling totally confident that it wasn't my fault, the cop gets there and tells me that it's no fault because he's a "crash reconstructionist" and he knows for a fact that I was going about 20 mph when it happened. I told him I was going that fast because I saw that she wasn't going to stop and I was trying to avoid getting hit.

Anyway, another cop came and told her that there's a 5% chance she can take this to court and find me totally at fault because I was speeding. And that's more than likely what she's gonna do, because she's a retarded bitch!

We both got tickets, mine for speeding. My mom works for a lawyer, and I'm gonna go talk to her, because this is absolute bullshit that me being a defensive driver turned into this whole thing being my fault because she couldn't turn around to look where she was going. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

*edit* Oh yeah, and for future reference, don't ever speed up to avoid something. I should've just sat there when I saw she wasn't going to stop. Then I wouldn't be at fault at all.

And since when is 20 mph speeding on private property when there's no speed limit posted?

*edit again*

Pics -

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/xterra3.jpg

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/xterra2.jpg

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/Xterra1.jpg

That would be her retarded 2001 Nissan Xterra and it's whopping amount of damage. A freakin piece of plastic and a busted taillight. Whoa...big whoop compared to mine.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/truck2.jpg

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/mytruck.jpg

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/truck3.jpg

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/truck.jpg

Agh. That's the fiberglass sticking out. Damn her. I cannot stress enough the fact that she backed into me! It is 100% her fault.

And here's the parking lot, not that it helps much.

http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y232/Nicole8188/parkinglot1.jpg

That's the glass from her taillight in the bottom right corner.

I think in parking lots there's a speed limit of 10 mph but don't hold me to that.

Anyway, I hope nothing happens because she backed into you. You didn't run into her as I see it and she's at fault, case closed. I hope things turn out ok though.

P.S. You should have just beat her ass right then and there if she was the snobby bitch type like you said. I'm pretty sure you could have taken her :grinyes:

I know I could've. I was being quiet and nice and polite, and she was going off on the cop. She had a really shitty attitude. But my whole thing is that it doesn't matter how fast I was going, SHE BACKED INTO ME!! I know I'm being kind of an ass about it, but c'mon. She BACKED into me. I can't get over how this could be my fault at all, when she clearly didn't look before she decided to back INTO ME.

And I wasn't speeding at all, until I saw that she wasn't going to stop. I shouldn't have tried to avoid getting hit though, because that's what's screwing me.

SHE BACKED INTO ME!! I know I'm being kind of an ass about it, but c'mon. She BACKED into me. I can't get over how this could be my fault at all, when she clearly didn't look before she decided to back INTO ME.

:iagree:

You're not at fault so don't worry. If you get an assfuck judge or something just go over and hit the chick in the face. Then tell the judge according to her story it was her fault for running into your fist. I think they'll get the picture.

i had something somewhat similar happen to me recently. I was backing out of the parking lot at the grocery store and I drive a s10 blazer so there is a wicked blind spot in the rear sides. This jackass in an integra comes flying around the corner and just barly hits me before I slam on my breaks. He starts honking and screaming and telling me that I hit his car. I'm like get the fuck out my way believe me I would've known if I hit your car. So I get out and the guy starts to shut up because I'm 6'7'' at like 250lbs. (people don't generally start shit with me) but then he points to a broken headlight and scratches and scuffs and I'm like so wheres the damage to my car? He's like well you're driving an SUV its tough(ok my blazer is lowered with a urathane body kit so if if anything even bumps my car you can tell). So he is insistant on calling the cops, and I'm like call the fucking cops all they're gonna do is ticket you for having a broken headlight and falsely reporting an accident. At this point he realized that I was failing for his stupid stunt and told me that because no one saw and there was no damage to my car that cops wouldn't believe him. But then he tells me that he's gonna write down my plate number and call the cops and tell them I did a hit and run. This is when after being mad cool about the whole thing I get in his face and tell him to try it, after I'm done you won't be able to drive. Now he looks as though he's about to piss himself and runs back to his car and drives off. Some people are such scumbags. Peace-

Nicole - DON'T EVER ADMIT YOU WERE SPEEDING. At best, state: I was driving at a speed appropriate to the situation, and wasn't looking at my speedo - I was looking at the car about to f*cking hit me!!

Good luck fighting it! Stupid shit happens. :(

I didn't admit to it. I told him I was going 10-15, and he's like, "I'm a crash reconstuctionist, don't lie to me, I can tell exactly how fast you were going by looking at the damage to the cars."

He neglected to mention how fast she was going as she was backing out of her parking place. Pretty damn fast.

And then he tried to tell me that he could tell exactly where the point of impact was because there was a pile of glass in the middle of the road. But, instead of the point being where all the glass was laying, it was 2 feet over where 1 lone piece of glass lay. I nicely mentioned the fact that people had been driving through there and that piece had probably flown over when TIRES WENT OVER IT...again I got the whole "I'm a crash reconstructionist" spiel.

I realize how much of a nitpicky ass I sound like, but I honestly don't care seeing as how my truck is damaged and I have two dick crash reconstructionists trying to tell me I can be found 100% at fault because I was going 20 mph.

How ironic the title of this thread is :icon16:


It is situations like the ones described above that make me love the ability to get someone's tags revoked :)

How ironic the title of this thread is :icon16:


I know, I thought so too. That's why I made it that. :smile:

I just got ignored here, thank you very much :rolleyes:

Nicole, this is what you do in the court room. Go over and punch the girl in the face as hard as you can. Then when they ask you why you did it say, "according to this woman's story she should be punished for running into my fist." If they don't understand, keep repeating it until they do.

Got it?

I didn't ignore it. I read it to my whole family earlier. They laughed. Hard. So did I. That seriously is the only thing that's made me smile through this whole thing. I'm normally a very nice quiet person, but I'm so ready to just fight someone about this.

I didn't ignore it. I read it to my whole family earlier. They laughed. Hard. So did I. That seriously is the only thing that's made me smile through this whole thing. I'm normally a very nice quiet person, but I'm so ready to just fight someone about this.

Well I'm glad, but the thing is, I'm not trying to be funny really. I know a person that used that argument, didn't punch the person though, in their case, and won.

forget the face, go for the ovaries. right in the baby makers! :grinyes: prevent any further stupid offspring :thumbsup:

Well it is her fault, parcially. It is also a law to yield any vihicle or pedestrian in your way.

How ironic the title of this thread is :icon16:


It is situations like the ones described above that make me love the ability to get someone's tags revoked :)
The keyword is stupid. :icon16:

forget the face, go for the ovaries. right in the baby makers! :grinyes: prevent any further stupid offspring :thumbsup:
:lol2: Darwin would have loved you!

Wasn't very smart on your part to speed up. I learned very quickly that people just grip the wheel, slam it into reverse, and back up just hoping for the best.

I think you know better now though ;)

People are so stupid when it comes to driving. Its amazing how many times you could get hit in just 5 minutes driving because people dont pay attention.

Good luck with the court case though.

sorry, i feel bad for you, first ppl forget your birthday, then some ditsy ass bitch trashes your ride and has an attitude about it... lol, around the second time the cop told me he was a crash reconstructionists, lol... he prob wouldnt have gotten it all out and i would have slugged him... 'im a crash reconstr*pow*' just lay his ass out. then call the cops again and when they arrive on sceen just be like oh that cop over there? he fell down...

This will be very interesting to see how it turns out. Oh and fight your ticket in court, and say you sped up to avoid an accident. And tell them that if you had not sped up, there would have been much more damage.

Well what would you expect from a 20 year old snobby bitch?

There is the problem that when a person is backing up the people that are driving are supposed to let that person out because they can see much better. BUT she also as you said hauled out of that spot, soooo who knows.



I'm all for beating her ass.

There is the problem that when a person is backing up the people that are driving are supposed to let that person out because they can see much better.

The thing is she hit the BACK END of my truck, not the front. Even if I would've stopped when I saw her backing up, she would've hit me. It just would've been in the middle of my truck.

This happened to me once. Luckily I nailed the gas and swerved out of the way in time to avoid being hit, and them my friend who saw it all from the sidewalk went and yelled at the lady for me. :lol2:

in that case kick her preppy ass into the floor. Knock her out like the fat kid in dodgeball

Lol, so technically if she backed over a 3 year old...it's not her fault...the 3 year old was in the way, cause she was "backing up"..

This is the problem with this world, NO MOTHERF*CKING BODY says..."sorry, my fault.." No one want to ACCEPT what they did.. Makes me mad..

Sorry Nicole, i know ALL too well about sh*tty drivers that think they are not to blame.. Example, july '2004 an old fart blew a red light at 30mph and hit my tbird head on.. The cops at the scene knew she did also, she kept on saying "it's not my fault..my light was green.."..

The best part, she was in a turn lane ONLY that could only have a GREEN ARROW or RED ARROW.. The cop said so basically if it was green, you drove through a turn lane light only....oh she shut up alright..

As far as "right of way"..i do believe she is COMPLETELY at fault.. It's the same as the highway, the cars merging on DON'T have the right, the cars driving do.. Imagine merging onto a highway and side swiping a car doing 60mph.....then telling the cop, "i was getting on the highway...THEY SHOULD STOP"...

Good luck...

Lol, so technically if she backed over a 3 year old...it's not her fault...the 3 year old was in the way, cause she was "backing up"..

This is the problem with this world, NO MOTHERF*CKING BODY says..."sorry, my fault.." No one want to ACCEPT what they did.. Makes me mad..

Sorry Nicole, i know ALL too well about sh*tty drivers that think they are not to blame.. Example, july '2004 an old fart blew a red light at 30mph and hit my tbird head on.. The cops at the scene knew she did also, she kept on saying "it's not my fault..my light was green.."..

The best part, she was in a turn lane ONLY that could only have a GREEN ARROW or RED ARROW.. The cop said so basically if it was green, you drove through a turn lane light only....oh she shut up alright..

As far as "right of way"..i do believe she is COMPLETELY at fault.. It's the same as the highway, the cars merging on DON'T have the right, the cars driving do.. Imagine merging onto a highway and side swiping a car doing 60mph.....then telling the cop, "i was getting on the highway...THEY SHOULD STOP"...

Good luck...


i like this guy, everything he said i agree with :) that would be nice trying to tell a cop i was coming on the highway they should stop.

U should have grabed that bitch by her hair a buffed out those scratches with her face!

I didn't want to make a thread of this and not trying to hijack, but the other day at McDonalds drive through. I was waiting in my truck, and i was rolling forward very very slowly, and I bumped the lady in a van, just being a smart ass that I am I say" What did you do" she just gets all pissed off and drives away. HAHA It was GREAT...My friend that was with me laughed his ass off. BTW her plastic bumper cover was just dented in one spot...haha.

Edit: let us know what happens.

Lol, so technically if she backed over a 3 year old...it's not her fault...the 3 year old was in the way, cause she was "backing up"..

This is the problem with this world, NO MOTHERF*CKING BODY says..."sorry, my fault.." No one want to ACCEPT what they did.. Makes me mad..

Sorry Nicole, i know ALL too well about sh*tty drivers that think they are not to blame.. Example, july '2004 an old fart blew a red light at 30mph and hit my tbird head on.. The cops at the scene knew she did also, she kept on saying "it's not my fault..my light was green.."..

The best part, she was in a turn lane ONLY that could only have a GREEN ARROW or RED ARROW.. The cop said so basically if it was green, you drove through a turn lane light only....oh she shut up alright..

As far as "right of way"..i do believe she is COMPLETELY at fault.. It's the same as the highway, the cars merging on DON'T have the right, the cars driving do.. Imagine merging onto a highway and side swiping a car doing 60mph.....then telling the cop, "i was getting on the highway...THEY SHOULD STOP"...

Good luck...

Be careful there are idiots that have access to this they might try it.


*edit* someone been messing around with my post count it jumped like 15 posts. i'm bieng hacked

So what happened to Nicole?

I hope everything turned out ok. It'd break my heart to find out she was in a jail cell right now because of this.

So what happened to Nicole?

The law in most states is that when you are backing, you have a duty to insure that it is safe to do so.

Speed of Nicole's vehicle canNOT be proven without radar or a policeman at the scene. Since the cop wasn't there when the accident occurred, AND it occurred on private property, there should have been no tickets issued.

The courts should throw out Nicole's ticket, the cop didn't witness the accident, nor how fast she was driving.

This should have been handled by the insurance companies. The bitch that was backing owes for Nicole's vehicle repairs, pure and simple.


-edit- and this post serves as a bump...Nicole, what happened, and have you been to court yet?

She's in the slammer :icon16:

Nope, not yet anyway. I'm waiting for my court date...stupid, slow Volusia County Clerk of Court.

She's in the slammer :icon16::lol:

Seriously, how the hell can the idiot cop say he knew how fast you were going just by looking at the bump in the car.

I see you winning the case, but its a bitch having to go to court in the first place. Wish you luck, and oh happy belated birthday.

TS out

Nope, not yet anyway. I'm waiting for my court date...stupid, slow Volusia County Clerk of Court.

How about the insurance companies? Has hers paid for your damages yet?

i agree

Her insurance doesn't have to pay for my damage right now. Florida is a no-fault state, and since the accident was in a parking lot and we both got tickets, we're both at fault. My court date is September 29th, and I'm going Monday to get the crash report from OCPD.

If I can get my ticket thrown out, then she will be the only one with a ticket, and therefore at fault. And then punched in the face.

And then punched in the face.

Don't forget to take pictures :biggrin:

..pictures, both before and after the punching.

Wait....


"Crash reconstructionist" :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Does he have a computer to "analyze" the situation. I'd like to have a crack at this guy. Thats the biggest load of shit in the world I can tell you were going 20 LMAO! There's so many other factor involved what a dumbass... I would have let him have it right there... (He's talking out of his ass)

So what happened to Nicole?

everything turned out ok?

i think she managed to get her ticket thown out, the other lady lost, then Nicole punched her, and got put in prison for assault...... :lol2:


just pour brake fluid on her car one night, she'll come out in the morning and go "oh, what's this on my car?" then when she wipes it, it will take the paint with it.

think of it as "helping" karma by doing it's job for it :evillol:

Remind me not to piss you off hks.....

Cops do wierd stuff. A lady in a minivan made a friend of mine pullover (he was in a 96 eclipse). She said that he hit her rear bumper at the previous traffic light. He didnt know what the hell she was talking about; there wasnt even a scratch on her car, let alone him ever having hit her in the first place. So a cop comes along much later, listens to the whole deal, and gives my friend a "speeding ticket" for doing 45 in a 40 zone to make him "pay" for "hitting" the lady's van. Can you beleive that? Out of the blue, a baseless speeding ticket... complete BS. so yeah, youre not alone!! We should form some kind of "People-Against-Bullshit-Ticket" club.

totally her fault, she has no chance in court

Her insurance doesn't have to pay for my damage right now. Florida is a no-fault state, and since the accident was in a parking lot and we both got tickets, we're both at fault. My court date is September 29th, and I'm going Monday to get the crash report from OCPD.

If I can get my ticket thrown out, then she will be the only one with a ticket, and therefore at fault. And then punched in the face.
i hate that no-fault BS. Colorado revoked about a year or two ago. It lowered my premiums over $400/6mos because i didn't have to carry extra medical coverage. i hate that your insurance will go up because your ins. will pay for hers and hers will go to to pay for yours. Capitalism at it's best!

I hate to start a new thread on this, so I'm bringing this one back. I went to court earlier today, and neither the cop nor the girl that hit me showed up, so my ticket got dismissed. YAY!!!

Now she has to pay to fix my truck. I'm ecstatic. My month has been made. Shit, maybe my whole year.

Cool. Do you have her insurance info? Does her insurance cover it, or does she have to pay out of pocket?

Cool. Do you have her insurance info? Does her insurance cover it, or does she have to pay out of pocket?

I have her insurance info, I'm going to get some estimates tomorrow and send them to her insurance company. I don't really care whether her insurance pays for it or she does, as long as it isn't me.

VICTORY FOR THE GOOD DRIVERS!!!! congrats, nicole!

good to hear that your ride's gonna get fixed, not out of your pocket.

Well done. Have you told your own insurance company that this lady hit you?

ehh...

I think it was kind of dumb to have gone to court with this...its just a small dent and a few scratches. Was it really worth getting this upset over?

ehh...

I think it was kind of dumb to have gone to court with this...its just a small dent and a few scratches. Was it really worth getting this upset over?

She's the one that wanted to get tickets at the scene. The cop told her that he didn't have to cite anyone if we both agreed to work it out. But she cried and said she wanted insurance info and tickets. I offered to let her pay for my truck...haha. Had I not gone to court I would've had to pay for my ticket and my truck to get fixed because Florida is a no-fault state if neither party is ticketed.

Anyway, it is a big deal seeing as how it cracked the fiberglass and they estimated it at about $800-$1000. That's money that I don't exactly have. Has anything ever happened to your vehicle? Anything is worth getting upset over when you're making payments and someone doesn't want to take the blame for something that was their fault.

You should see my town--so many old people cruising the streets at 10-15 at rush hour-painstaking and very dangerous! A swear a minute!

Nicole, be careful, up here if your claim is more than 30 days its a big pain in the ass to get the insurance company to pay. You will probably have to send them copies of the court paperwork showing she was ticketed and didn't show up. Be prepared for it, and don't back down. When the adjuster shows up to look at the damage and tries to get out of paying it, show them the highest estimate you have, tell them you want the work done there. I've done it, even when they say its lower I usually get the higher amount. Plus, they will have to pay for a rental, and if you are under 25 its really expensive if you can find anyone who will rent you a car. Good luck.

She's the one that wanted to get tickets at the scene. The cop told her that he didn't have to cite anyone if we both agreed to work it out. But she cried and said she wanted insurance info and tickets. I offered to let her pay for my truck...haha. Had I not gone to court I would've had to pay for my ticket and my truck to get fixed because Florida is a no-fault state if neither party is ticketed.

Anyway, it is a big deal seeing as how it cracked the fiberglass and they estimated it at about $800-$1000. That's money that I don't exactly have. Has anything ever happened to your vehicle? Anything is worth getting upset over when you're making payments and someone doesn't want to take the blame for something that was their fault.

My bad...didn't know it was worth so much. Sorry. Thought it'd be under $100 or so...

Good for u. Oh and btw it was totally her fault. Congrats.