person I dislike

Ok, there is this guy who goes to my school. I think he had a crush on my gf b4 i met her but she never went out with him. This kid is a F ing weirdo. I started dating this girl, stuff started happening like 5 6 months into the relationship. This guy just doesnt get it. He keeps texting my gf about where she is, and if she is okay like every 5 minutes...and she is with me! She said he told her he is nervous about her being in my car wit me. i was like WTF....And one night we were going to her dorm and we were talking shit about this guy and he was hiding underneath the bed!!!!!!! I was like WTF! So i cursed him out, and everyone says i should of cracked him in the face. Anyways, has anyone ever had this encounter before, and what did u do, or not do about it. I didnt hit him in respect for my gf. Also every time I mention or she mentions she like the fact that I play guitar or whatever, he comes back and tells my gf that he does the same thing, just to impress her. Sometimes I just wanna lay the kid out. I am 6'2'' 205 lbs and he is like roughly 5'4'' 150lbs i am guessing. Its just soooo tempting!

-Chris

Don't kick his ass, your gonna end of going to prison for murder. Plus if he lives which probably wont happen he might come back and be one of the weird kids that ends up shooting your gf,you and himself. Next time he breaks in to your gfs place call the cops get a restraining order against him and walk away. Just my :2cents:

^^^^^ With skate totally here, that is B&E, and arrestable offense. The dude is weird or whipped.

However, I will counterpoint, is the g/f playing games between you two? Some of them just love the drama and being sought after. No offense meant, but point to consider, and get really straight with her, NOW.

Ok, there is this guy who goes to my school. I think he had a crush on my gf b4 i met her but she never went out with him. This kid is a F ing weirdo. I started dating this girl, stuff started happening like 5 6 months into the relationship. This guy just doesnt get it. He keeps texting my gf about where she is, and if she is okay like every 5 minutes...and she is with me! She said he told her he is nervous about her being in my car wit me. i was like WTF....And one night we were going to her dorm and we were talking shit about this guy and he was hiding underneath the bed!!!!!!! I was like WTF! So i cursed him out, and everyone says i should of cracked him in the face. Anyways, has anyone ever had this encounter before, and what did u do, or not do about it. I didnt hit him in respect for my gf. Also every time I mention or she mentions she like the fact that I play guitar or whatever, he comes back and tells my gf that he does the same thing, just to impress her. Sometimes I just wanna lay the kid out. I am 6'2'' 205 lbs and he is like roughly 5'4'' 150lbs i am guessing. Its just soooo tempting!

-Chris

chris-
i can't even EXPLAIN how exactly the same situation i was in. like even the weights are the same. i'm 6'2" and i was like 200 and he was a scrawny midget and even less than 150. he was in love we my gf and he was my damn roommate. he looked like krusty the clown. he was like 24 and living in the dorms and he was bald with purple hair on the sides (not dyed). total nerd/loser. he knew my chick from the year before and i hated him then too. just flipping weird and always trying to impress her. he would never leave the room when she came over TOTALLY cock blocking. it was so gay. just suck it up bro. you know she has no feelings for him and i knew it was the same for me too.

don't worry about it..school's over anyways!

sebastian

Let him be. When he crosses the line with the lady, smash him. (as if he never crossed the line anyway)


ok for real............personally I would kick his ass (if it was ok with the lady. gotta love women)

ok for real real I would kick him ass for fun.

Yeah, I know she doesnt have feelings for the kid. He didnt B&E....her roomate was there with him. He clams he was gonna scare her cuz she is very gulable. I didnt buy it,I think he knew we were talking bout him cuz he knew we were coming bak to the dorms cuz of her roomate. Anyways, he is just a prick, but I donno if he realizes what he is doing, or if it is his way of being nice. Whatever, i dont like it. I also think it has to do with his family.....I dont mean to offend ne 1 here...but his mon is married to his step father after a 1st divorce....Have anything to do with being a "father figure" always worrying?
-Chris

Don't do anything but get some friends to beat the living hell out of him while you're at the movies with your girl. He'll get the message.

Thats the point. For some strange reason, he'll be there too (crazy)
probably under the seat?

^ HAHA thats freakin hilarious! I don't know what it is with this kid. Before all this crap started happening, I did try to become friendly with the guy, cuz of my girlfriend...now we are both not even friends with him even more. He is like one of those people, is like...okay i tried, didnt work...now lets move on...lol

-Chris

I would've still popped him in the face when I found him under the bed.

I would've still popped him in the face when I found him under the bed.

Better yet, keep him under the bed while a big 400 poud girl lays on it.

^ best idea ive ever heard of :lol:

Ok......so now...me and my girlfriend have been at peace, No one has been bothering her or whatever...we live an hour and a half away from each other...I see her from time to time in the summer...Anyways......this god damn pathetic loser calls my girlfriend out of no where and ...she said..he yelled at her! I was like WTF!? For what? She told me that he thinks that she (my gf) has all the time to go visit her friends, but doesnt visit him! 1st of all...she hasnt seen anyone from school in I dont know how long and its been like almost a month since I saw her last! The funny thing is, he lives like 30 minutes away..lol..and he cant visit unless he calls the house at the gate...haha..I find this poorly pathetic and hilarious that this kid has to do this.

-Chris

where does these weird ppl come from?

New Jersey...I have nothing against N.J. Just this kid.

-Chris

ahh okey, i am not going to that state for university for sure :P

No, lol.... he is from New Jersey.....we go to school in Florida....thats where all the crazys end up! BTW, i am a native Floridian and I am not crazy! lol

-Chris

I don't think it has anything to do with his mother's marital issues, but it could just be his personality: He just doesn't 'get the message'. I would try to talk to him about it if you havent yet. Tell him what you're thinking and ask him what his deal is, or have your girlfriend do it, with or without you. He might deny any of his feelings for her. Also your girlfriend should not respond to any of his messages, nor should she give him any information as to where she is. One response from her could build up his hopes and just dangle him on a very thin string and he'll continue to bug you.

if i knew he was under the bed i woulda lept on it froma running start, it would be well funny if it collapsed on him, an he couldnt do shit by gettin the police in, cos he's not meant to be hiding in her room. i would get a restraining order like skateforfood said, just be firm an tell him its in his best interests not to bother her, an if you do get him "dealt with" make sure you're at least an hour journey away an have a solidy alliby, like being on a cctv camera video at a cinema or someting, or a place where lots of people will see you there.

another thing, how did he get your g/fs phone number ?

He got her number because they were friends in the beginning of the year...i did not know my gf then...i mean I knew her, I just wasnt dating her. Now, he is just getting a little out of hand and sometimes I just wanna crush his assophogus. But i am thinking I may set him up for an embarassing picture and black male the shit out of him! lol

-Chris

He got her number because they were friends in the beginning of the year...i did not know my gf then...i mean I knew her, I just wasnt dating her. Now, he is just getting a little out of hand and sometimes I just wanna crush his assophogus. But i am thinking I may set him up for an embarassing picture and black male the shit out of him! lol

-Chris

Sorry bro but what are you, in Jr. high? Setup an embarassing picture and blackmail? the last time i thought about that or even heard someone say such a thing was prolly in elementary school. The way to go about handling this is, as an adult. Tell him to his face you don't want him around / talking/chilling with your g/f (as long as she's not one of those stupid bitches that talks shit about people but secretly loves the attention, if thats the case find a new woman). If that don't work rough him up or call the cops for harassment. Hope this gives you some direction. Peace-

PB, dude....chill, that was not a serious idea...haha...thats not something I would actually do, just a funny thought. Anyways, he knows I don't like him....my gf is a good hearted, wholesome girl who would never go behind my back, we have discussed this b4 w/ each other. I am not worried about her wanting attention, i have thought that b4 talking to her....now i know its not the case....and btw, the reason i am so pissed about this kid and the situations I have had is cuz i am in college! Fu]ng college and this s#it is still happening! This kid needs to grow up or die!

-Chris

Oh and another thing...one of my gf's roomates ex bf's is rooming with the kid that pisses me off!!! I live off campus, if anything else happens..i am gonna confront him.

-Chris

...And one night we were going to her dorm and we were talking shit about this guy and he was hiding underneath the bed!!!!!!! I was like WTF!

-Chris

Under the BED!! WHAT A FUCKING DESPARATE PERV/PSYCHO! I would have kicked his ass.

Jcsaleen....my thoughts exactly! I held back from kicking his ass out of respect for my girlfriend. She hates seeing me get really upset...she also hasn't seen someone get the fuck beaten out of them in front of her, and I didnt wanna freak her out...I'm sure next semester there will be a time I will be able to confront and or kick this little fags ass.

Just find out when shes visiting home or something an tell the kid you want to talk aka (Beat his ass).

Yea, sounds like a good idea. But I dont think it would be worth my time right now. Plus, he may get suspicious if I tell him that I wanna "talk". I am thinking of taking a cheap shot at him...but I need to be realllly pissed about something....I guess I can think of what he has done.

-Chris