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SexySaadia
02-22-2004, 06:54 PM
Hey ppl how are you? i have a small problem. Yeas its a guy problem. There's this guy i had been eyeing since our freshman year in college, but nothing ever came out of it. And as of last year he was seeing this complete slut, but he thought she was a great girl. We were good friends then, and i couldn't bear to see him get hurt, so i had to inform him of the things she did behind his back. After much waiting, and helping him deal, he finally decided that he could do better and left her. We got soo much closer after that, and went out many times, and hung out a lot more often. We have been having fun, but one of his friends is coming up soon. This girl helped him get over her too. She's staying over his house, and he keeps saying nothing's goign to happen. I dont nkow what to think about that. I trust him, but at the same time i dont think i have any say yet as to who can and can't go over there. The bitch is a part time chanel model too. One of the reasons we got so much closer is because i helped him through probably one of the toughest times of his life. She was also there for him too, should i assume the worst and let him know it bothers me?

lotusonwater19
02-22-2004, 08:03 PM
if u like him and he likes you too, and you know it wouldnt ruin the friendship, tell him how you feel about him. but best not to mention the chanel model bothers you because that shows him how insecure you are with him around his female friends.

plum
02-23-2004, 09:13 AM
i think that from what ive read youve become really close to him...but i think its important to keep in mind that you decide whether you helped him because you wanted to get with him or because you wanted to be his friend. I think you should always give ppl a chance and he deserves one too....he has gone through a lot and if he says nothnig will happen....nothnig will happen although its always a possibility you have ot be ready to deal with....also i think nows the time to show him that your his friend and not just a potential gf.....ask the two of them to hang out, treat them out to lunch and just have some fun....she could be a really cool girl and youll have missed the chance to meet a really great person by seeing her as the enemy instead of just another person.....plus not every guy is that shallow and will hook up with a girl just cause shes hot =P, well good luck =)

SRV BOY
03-10-2004, 10:55 AM
This is a car website, not a relationship advice forum

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