What is the best way to ask a girl out?

What are the best ways to ask a girl out? What are some of your pick up lines, if you use them and what would be some of the worst ways to ask a girl out, according to your experiences.

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You gave the worst answer immediately after asking the question. Pick-up lines are a major no-no. Just go up to the girl and say "would you like to go to..." or "i'd really like to take you out to..." Pick up lines are just cheesy and will get you laughed at.. not that i'd know :uhoh:

I’m with CrayzayJay. DO NOT use pick up lines! I repeat DO NOT use pick up lines!!!

Just be straight up and ask her out for a coffee or something like that.

Are you talking about asking out a girl that you already know or a girl that you don't know?

"Want some dick?"

Nice shoes...wanna F***?!

Gee, bet those worked! :rolleyes:

One in 20 it works on.

Remember that movie A beautifull mind where the guy goes up to the blonde and starts talking about fluid exchange......classic :evillol:

a quick line thats easy to get out when your talking to the girl is "we should go out sometime" simple and effective. once you feel you've mustered up the balls during the coversation.. just drop it on her.

be straight to the point, don't bullshit and no pick up lines. if anything just comment on her beauty etc etc. There really is no right way of asking a girl out on a date cuz not everyone is the same. But for me the method that worked was being straight to the point.

Remember that movie A beautifull mind where the guy goes up to the blonde and starts talking about fluid exchange......classic :evillol:

Ya, I can't believe it didn't work. :grinno:

This is my favorite pick-up line (even though I would never use pick-up lines):

"Hey baby, do you like math? Well we should add you and me, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and multiply."

I know, its terrible.

"So, do you come here often?" ;)

Try to follow that up in the next 3 minutes with
"So what are your thoughts on group sex"

"So, do you come here often?" ;)

Try to follow that up in the next 3 minutes with
"So what are your thoughts on group sex"

:iceslolan The pick up line of champions.

Shower the girl with compliments.

"You know, your legs remind me of my favorite porn star. I bet you take it up the ass real good."

Here's the best way: "Are you wearing space pants?, because my ass looks great!"

But don't ever try: "Are you free tonight? - or is it going to cost me!?"

Are ugly girls easier to pick up? I hope that thru tv influencing, that hot girls start going out with less atractive men. know what I mean :naughty:

I find that hot girls tend to go for assholish guys. So...

Be an asshole!

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Getting the Girl 101.

Pick up lines that are actually good:
"I figured I should come over and talk to you before you caught me staring."
"How much does a Polar Bear weigh? Enough to break the ice."
"I am a nobody, and nobody's perfect."

And finally the GREATEST pick up line ever:

"Hi."

And finally the GREATEST pick up line ever:

"Hi."

Wow, I would've never thought of that. Maybe that's where I've been going wrong all these years... :icon16:

Girls like to hear their names, so just sit down and talk to her and find out her name. Try not to use it excessivly but when there is a moment that it would be ok go for it. Also, be yourself, and be confident, if the girl gets the impression that you KNOW you can have her, it will be a turn on as girls love guys with confidence.

Show her your belly button lint collection.

Show her your belly button lint collection.
.... or your stamp collection... there's nothin cooler than a guy who collects stamps :thumbsup:

ask her if she has seen a trouser snake? :evillol: Then if no, Then whip it out and say here is a trouser snake.

Put up a front like all women. Go rent a nice car. ( you can get a good one for like 25 bucks for a day or two) and go to an expensive store in the mall and by new clothes. then cash in a few $20s for all $1s and put a $100on the outside. hot rod the shit outta the care like you can buy a new one, impress her with your new clothes and flash the big wad of bills every now and then. If done succesfully you will score that night, the next day return the clothes to the store, tell her you need a ride to return the rental and then try to borrow $5 from her for gas!!!!

"Hi, my name's _______ but they call me Barney Rubble because I make the Bedrock."

But seriously, I concur with the shooting straight thing. Jokes can work too though.

Oh wow...






That bedrock thing is gold.

HAHA great stuff guys

Ill put my few words of wisdom in

Nice legs...What time do they open?

Do you work at subway? cause you just gave me a foot long... but in my case...a 6ft party sub...

How you dooooin?

....I've got the magic stick...

Hey hunny... You look like a screamer..

You no, I bet i can prove to you that you dont need to chew before you swallow..

Here's the best way: "Are you wearing space pants?, because my ass looks great!"

But don't ever try: "Are you free tonight? - or is it going to cost me!?"

Don't try the last one it got me smacked by one of my friends. :lol2:

That's probably why I used the warning "but don't ever try:" :)
I think the first one is great, my friends and I were thinking about stupid pickup lines, and screwed up the "are you wearing space pants, because your ass is out of this world!" and got the above non-sensical line - I think it's probably more effective than the original.

Always be yourself. Never lie to get a date, since you'll get trapped by the truth eventually... BUT, don't make the same stupid mistakes every guy makes...

Be confident in yourself. Girls love confidence. This will take practice, so you might want to ask out a bunch of 6s and 7s before asking out a 9.5.

If it's at a party or something, or any group setting, it'll help if she has a chance to see you talking to others, especially women, and having a good time and making them laugh.

If you know someone that can introduce you, great, use it. Otherwise, you'll have to do it yourself, which can be tricky, but again, confidence can make or break you here. Lines are risky; they can come off really lame. Although, this one's pretty good... ;)You: "I would really appreciate you helping me meet someone."
Her: "Sure."
You: "Please introduce yourself to me."Another great tool to start getting hints if shes interested in you is to ask her for her name, and then wait. If she doesn't ask your name in return, say "Nice to meet you, [whatever she said]," and excuse yourself to go meet other people. She's not interested, so don't waste your breath.

Once you've been introduced, talk to her for up to about 10 minutes and watch for any signals of interest, including:
-touching you (even if she makes it look like an accident)
-big smile (not just polite; you'll know the difference)
-prolonged eye contact
-laughing at your dumb jokes
When a woman likes you, she'll give you clues. Not all are the same, but these are some good standard ones...

During these 10 minutes, keep the conversation light, and hopefully fun and/or funny. Don't talk about how you can't get a date, or that you live w/ your parents, or that youe ex-girlfriend was a psycho. And don't talk about sex, at all. Don't even joke. Women have to hear abuot it all the time and put up with countless inuendoes and poorly veiled come-ons. If you don't do the same, you'll be more interesting than all the other bozos she talked to today.

In fact, try not to talk about yourself much at all. If she's interested in you at all, giving her less information will make her more interested in seeing you more later. If she asks you a question about yourself, answer it honestly, but then turn the conversation back on her, or about something neutral. Basically, listen to her, and keep your trap shut.

As you close in on the 10-ish miunte mark in this conversation, you have to do something tricky: You have to gauge her interest in you. This is the polar opposite of what most guys do. They think "Well, I like her, so I must have a shot." No, wrong. Look past your own attraction to her, and see if she's given you any of those signals I mentioned above (even just one) to tell you she's interested in you.

If not, say "it was nice talking to you," and excuse yourself. She's not interested, and nothing you're going to say at that moment will change that.

If so, you may have a live one, so you're going to perform a very important test of her interest in you. You will say five words: "What's your home phone number," and nothing more. You will stand silent until she replies, and you'll watch everything she does in those few seconds.

She'll never say "no." One of two things will happen:
-She won't be able to get the words out fast enough. Best case scenario is that she grabs your pen and writes it on your arm, says something like, "You'd better call me," then takes down your home number, too.
or
-She'll give you any number of excuses or substitutions, including, but not limited to: asking for your business card; offering to give you hers; she'll give you her work number, cell number, pager number; something about a boyfriend; etc. This mean's she's not interested.

Even if you get the digits, you have to judge her behaivior in giving them to you. Did she hesitate? If so, there's probably a reason. Women that aren't interested in you don't want you to have their home number.

Now, number in hand or not, you end the conversation. You walk away first. You have someplace to be, or someone esle to go talk to... If you end the conversation, you take control, which is something women will appreciate. ;)


When do you call her? When you get home? The next day? NO!!

Two days at the absolute least. But this isn't the real answer. Every schmoe has this answer. "Two days" is like the industry standard.

You will wait five to nine days before you call her.

What?!? Five days? What if she loses interest?

If she was interested in you to begin with, this will only make her more interested. The last hundred guys she gave her number to called her in two days (except for the desparate ones that called the next day, but she never called them back. ;) ), but you will be different, and therefore more interesting. She will wonder if you really liked her in the first place, or if you were just playing games. Whatever, that's fine, because she'll be thinking about you. ;)

When you call, stay on the phone only long enough to make the date. Don't chit-chat. You have more important stuff going on in your life than talking on the phone, or at least she'll think so. ;)

Ask her to go to a certain place at a certain time. She'll either say yes, or she'll say she can't because . If she doesn't say yes, and she doesn't counter-propose a time for a date immedately, thank her and hang up. If, the second time you call her for a date a few days later, she doesn't agree to a date, and still doesn't offer an alternative, get off the phone and throw away her number. She's not interested.

Once you get the date, you have to keep her interested, too. I'll probably post more on that another time... :p

These aren't strictly my ideas, but I espouse and endorse them fully. Feel free to PM me if you have particular questions about this [i]uncommon method, and I'll put yuo on the path go get more of this critical information. :sunglasse There's TONS more.

Another signal is the hair! Watch for them playing with the hair.

Another pick up line: I'll bet you $20 that you'll turn me down.

Invite her to a party...

and when she says yes let her know.."their is a party in her mouth, and your the only one cummin" :icon16:

I can't take credit for the "system" as I explained it myself, as I was just introduced to them myself, but I'm not yet ready to reveal the whole deal. But, there's so much more than just this.


Again, if the stuff I posted is interesting to you, it's all based on some simple concepts. PM me and I'll point you in the right direction. ;)

I have older sisters. They tell me everything. :)

Jay... you're now my hero.

I have older sisters. They tell me everything. :)
you're lucky. usually women cannot really articulate why they choose one guy over another, so most men will only experience on the whole women that say they want one thing and then always seem to choose the opposite.

I will say this much guys... I was going to chime in and give my 2 cents but jay beat me to the regiment before me. Good on you mate.

Jay really hit the nail on the head with that one. Between that tactic and just saying "hey" I didn't spend many nights alone that I didn't want to. Of course, there are ALWAYS going to be nights where you strike out. That's life.

The only thing that I would add to jay's advice is to watch your OWN body-language. Try to avoid using exagerrated movements or anything to the like too much. And no matter how hot she is, try and keep the drooling to a minimum.

If you're the nervous or shy type, just take a deep breath and try and imagine your talking to a long-time friend you haven't seen for a while. And I personally avoid talking about ex's completely during the first couple meetings.

That's about it.

Oh yeah, and if my wife happens to read this, I NEVER dated anyone before you honey.... <honest>

Jay,

where do babies come from? :iceslolan

Jay,how do you restart a wife with a flat battery?will a 19 year old porn starlet and a set of jumper leads work?

I've thought of another way. And it works. I've seen it happen.

First you grab a mic. You toddle on up and say

"Excuse me, miss"

Then your friend has to say to her

"Don't worry, I'll handle this"

You both then do a snazzy move.

You then start singing You've Lost That Lovin' Feeling to her.

She'll say

"That original. Have you done it before?"

To which you answer:

"Twice"

She says

"Did it work?"

To which the convo goes like this:

"Crashed and burned the first time"
"And the second?"
"I dunno, but it's looking good so far. I'll let you know in the morning"

It works, it really does.

You also need to follow her into the ladies room after that if she rejects you.

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and then a few weeks later be careful not to fly through anyone's jet wash or your buddy will die :(

but other than that, that's some sound advice on getting the girl. Singing to them can't fail :sunglasse

The only thing that I would add to jay's advice is to watch your OWN body-language. Try to avoid using exagerrated movements or anything to the like too much. And no matter how hot she is, try and keep the drooling to a minimum. Oh, yes! Absolutely!! This goes hand-in-hand with not talking about sex. You must also not leer at her like a sex-object. Honestly, all guys do this to all women all the time, so when you DON'T, you'll stand out. Make eye-contact when you're talking to her. Most women think it's romantic, and it'll keep your eyes from wandering below her neck. Don't shift back and forth between eyes, though, because you'll look creepy. Pick and eye and lock on...
If she's hot, or even super-hot, you don't need to tell her. Odds are she hears it all the time from every guy all the time. Limit yourself to one compliment, and make it sincere. Then get her talking about herself and shut the hell up.
If you're the nervous or shy type, just take a deep breath and try and imagine your talking to a long-time friend you haven't seen for a while. And I personally avoid talking about ex's completely during the first couple meetings.
You can get invaluable practice by talking to any women. Just for the practice, whether you're attracted to them or not. Talk to every cashier, clerk, lady in line beside you, grandma in the produce section, whatever. That'll help you build confidence. Heck, like GTR2b said, even if you just say 'hi' top every girl you walk past would be enough to start to work your way out of it. (PM me for more on this, BTW.)

You saw the stuff I posted about asking for the home phone number...
It's also good practice to try and go 30 days without ending any conversation with a woman without asking "What's your home phone number?" Even if it's nothing more than "Hi... What's your home phone number?" It's the experience that will help most, and pay dividends later. You'd strike out all the time at first, but that'll help you develop the idea that there's no need for you to take any rejection personally. As you get more comfortable, you'll find it easier to come up with the witty banter to keep them laughing and after a while you'll find that you will be getting some phone numbers. The best part is that after 3 weeks your confidence will be through the roof, and soon you'll have the cajones to approach any woman.

Jay,how do you restart a wife with a flat battery?will a 19 year old porn starlet and a set of jumper leads work?LOL, I think you'd be on your way to a double-homocide rather than a double-dip. :lol:

But I'll have something for you in a little bit. Something I'm working on myself with my wife as well...

I SERIOUSLY find alcohol my best solution to approaching girls. :D Fear goes out the window and I think to myself "what the hell" and I can usually get a conversation going. Hell I did it and it turned out she had a boyfriend!

And remember, if she shoots you down during a debreifing, you need to jump on your bike and hoon off. She will chase after you in her car, ensuring a low speed persuit. Several cars will swerve.

You are then guaranteed some action.

Singing to them can't fail :sunglasse

that's if the guy can sing:uhoh:

best way to ask a girl out is to BE YOURSELF..go up to her.. introduce yourself..start up a conversation

:sly:avoid pick up lines..i usually don't take these guys as serious:rolleyes:

that's if the guy can sing:uhoh:

Wasn't being serious :iceslolan


Finally some female input in this thread :)

club her and drag her back to your cave

OK, I'm a shy guy with no prospects, but just talking to chicks all the time does work very well. You must build up your Mackin skills over time. Go to parties, meet people, show off a different side of you than they would normally see. Just hang out with them. Hey, if I can do it then anyone can. :thumbsup: :bigthumb: :boink: :cheers:

club her and drag her back to your cave

:sly:better than hearing u TRY to sing:uhoh: lol:p

:sly:better than hearing u TRY to sing:uhoh: lol:p

b...but you said you luved my singing :frown:

OK, I'm a shy guy with no prospects, but just talking to chicks all the time does work very well. You must build up your Mackin skills over time. Go to parties, meet people, show off a different side of you than they would normally see. Just hang out with them. Hey, if I can do it then anyone can. :thumbsup: :bigthumb: :boink: :cheers:

I am going to start hanging around with you !!!!!!

"My boys over there bet that I wouldn't be able to start a conversation with the most beautiful girl in the room. Want to buy some drinks with their money?"

$20 for carnel knowledge- of a lady this time.

http://www.adolescent-adulthood.com/index.php

:lol: too funny

jay i worship you