same on this side of the field...
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 09:50 AM
okay i read the whole thread and yes i do hear what all of u are saying and yes it does make sense, all of it. yes girls are like that. but its the same over hear. let me tell u my situation: for 1 i dont rely on any male for support. im completely independent. i have a full time job, a brand new car, my own place and yes i am all there in the head. im not a slut, nor a lesbo/bi-sexual. i have no excess baggage from past relationships, nor any little ones. and for sum reason i cant seem to find any man who respects me. im good to them, completley. im totally cool with the decisions they make, i dont tell them what they can or cant do i just simply offer my advise. im not going to brag but im a good looking girl too i have no trouble finding men just finding good ones. its like there all taken or are players. im about to give up. i dont understand what it is. how hard can it be to find someone decent? never once have i been with someone and not been cheated on or skrewd over in someway. my friends tell me its because im too nice and they take advantage of that. i need ur advise on what im suppsd to do. mayb its because the good girls thnk there are no good guys left and the good guys thnk there are no good girls left so we give up all together. i done know what im suppsd to do or what im doing wrong? any feedback?
Steel
10-23-2003, 11:11 AM
come over here, that's what ;)
In all seriousness though, it's just so hard to tell from the getgo how a person really is, or what they're gonna do. And of course if you have strong feelings for them, any indication you get blinded to.i dunno, but it seems like the people "made" for each other are completley missing each other. I wasn't looking to get married to kate, but then again, i also wasn't looking to get my heart completley crushed. And during the whole relationship, I *thought* everything was fine, ya know. Heck I dated her because I was SURE that she wouldn't pull the stupid shit that she did...but..that's life. Now the whole problem is that unlike you, I DO have excess baggage, a lot of it, and it's going to take a while to get rid of it.
Keep looking i suppose. That guy will come around eventually.
In all seriousness though, it's just so hard to tell from the getgo how a person really is, or what they're gonna do. And of course if you have strong feelings for them, any indication you get blinded to.i dunno, but it seems like the people "made" for each other are completley missing each other. I wasn't looking to get married to kate, but then again, i also wasn't looking to get my heart completley crushed. And during the whole relationship, I *thought* everything was fine, ya know. Heck I dated her because I was SURE that she wouldn't pull the stupid shit that she did...but..that's life. Now the whole problem is that unlike you, I DO have excess baggage, a lot of it, and it's going to take a while to get rid of it.
Keep looking i suppose. That guy will come around eventually.
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 11:35 AM
come over here, that's what ;)
In all seriousness though, it's just so hard to tell from the getgo how a person really is, or what they're gonna do. And of course if you have strong feelings for them, any indication you get blinded to.i dunno, but it seems like the people "made" for each other are completley missing each other. I wasn't looking to get married to kate, but then again, i also wasn't looking to get my heart completley crushed. And during the whole relationship, I *thought* everything was fine, ya know. Heck I dated her because I was SURE that she wouldn't pull the stupid shit that she did...but..that's life. Now the whole problem is that unlike you, I DO have excess baggage, a lot of it, and it's going to take a while to get rid of it.
Keep looking i suppose. That guy will come around eventually.
yeah i geuss so i mean i get so tired of the same old shit, ya know? its the whole "no im not like every other guy uv dated" then in the end im the one who gets played for a fool every damn time. cuz they are, and u know what? i see it way ahead of time and jus thnk to myself no hes good to me no he wldnt do that. i take him out to dinner, i take him shopping i let him drive my ride. (wldnt surprise me if he picked up some sluts in it). and u know what he has the damn nerve to ask me to borrow money when i know he has plenty of it but what do i do loan it to him anyway and not a small amnt. and what do u thnk happens do i hear from him again? nope. but i geuss thats my fault i shldve seen it coming. i dont know what to do now its hard for me to trust guys and that doesnt really help when trying to build a relationship how do i let my guard down? when it nvr fails.
In all seriousness though, it's just so hard to tell from the getgo how a person really is, or what they're gonna do. And of course if you have strong feelings for them, any indication you get blinded to.i dunno, but it seems like the people "made" for each other are completley missing each other. I wasn't looking to get married to kate, but then again, i also wasn't looking to get my heart completley crushed. And during the whole relationship, I *thought* everything was fine, ya know. Heck I dated her because I was SURE that she wouldn't pull the stupid shit that she did...but..that's life. Now the whole problem is that unlike you, I DO have excess baggage, a lot of it, and it's going to take a while to get rid of it.
Keep looking i suppose. That guy will come around eventually.
yeah i geuss so i mean i get so tired of the same old shit, ya know? its the whole "no im not like every other guy uv dated" then in the end im the one who gets played for a fool every damn time. cuz they are, and u know what? i see it way ahead of time and jus thnk to myself no hes good to me no he wldnt do that. i take him out to dinner, i take him shopping i let him drive my ride. (wldnt surprise me if he picked up some sluts in it). and u know what he has the damn nerve to ask me to borrow money when i know he has plenty of it but what do i do loan it to him anyway and not a small amnt. and what do u thnk happens do i hear from him again? nope. but i geuss thats my fault i shldve seen it coming. i dont know what to do now its hard for me to trust guys and that doesnt really help when trying to build a relationship how do i let my guard down? when it nvr fails.
TexasF355F1
10-23-2003, 12:50 PM
okay i read the whole thread and yes i do hear what all of u are saying and yes it does make sense, all of it. yes girls are like that. but its the same over hear. let me tell u my situation: for 1 i dont rely on any male for support. im completely independent. i have a full time job, a brand new car, my own place and yes i am all there in the head. im not a slut, nor a lesbo/bi-sexual. i have no excess baggage from past relationships, nor any little ones. and for sum reason i cant seem to find any man who respects me. im good to them, completley. im totally cool with the decisions they make, i dont tell them what they can or cant do i just simply offer my advise. im not going to brag but im a good looking girl too i have no trouble finding men just finding good ones. its like there all taken or are players. im about to give up. i dont understand what it is. how hard can it be to find someone decent? never once have i been with someone and not been cheated on or skrewd over in someway. my friends tell me its because im too nice and they take advantage of that. i need ur advise on what im suppsd to do. mayb its because the good girls thnk there are no good guys left and the good guys thnk there are no good girls left so we give up all together. i done know what im suppsd to do or what im doing wrong? any feedback?
Saying that you can't rely on any male for support is only from the bad experiences you've had. I see it happening on both sides. One of my friends is going to to school from 6 in the morning till noon. Then working the rest of the day. Tries to make time for his gf and somewhere in there finds time to study. And he goes out of his way all the time for her and she doesn't appreciate him one bit. I can just see the pain and anger in him when he tells me about it. He treats his gf(of like 4 yrs) like a princess spends all the time he can and money he doesnt have on her and she really doesn't show him any appreciation for it. And when he wants to go out one night with the guys b/c if were lucky we get to hang out with him once a month b/c he's so busy, and she bitches.
But away from that there are a few of us good guys out there. My friends try and tell me to change myself and be louder and more straight forward. But thats not me and I'm not gonna change for anyone. I konw how you feel. It sucks, but I just continue to live day to day and know that fate will step in and meet a girl that doesn't piss me off to no end or just annoy me.
Saying that you can't rely on any male for support is only from the bad experiences you've had. I see it happening on both sides. One of my friends is going to to school from 6 in the morning till noon. Then working the rest of the day. Tries to make time for his gf and somewhere in there finds time to study. And he goes out of his way all the time for her and she doesn't appreciate him one bit. I can just see the pain and anger in him when he tells me about it. He treats his gf(of like 4 yrs) like a princess spends all the time he can and money he doesnt have on her and she really doesn't show him any appreciation for it. And when he wants to go out one night with the guys b/c if were lucky we get to hang out with him once a month b/c he's so busy, and she bitches.
But away from that there are a few of us good guys out there. My friends try and tell me to change myself and be louder and more straight forward. But thats not me and I'm not gonna change for anyone. I konw how you feel. It sucks, but I just continue to live day to day and know that fate will step in and meet a girl that doesn't piss me off to no end or just annoy me.
Steel
10-23-2003, 12:56 PM
Its the eternal struggle... On the one hand, you don't want to be alone, and want to be with someone special, but on the other hand you don't wanna risk getting hurt. And you almost expect to get hurt eventually. And the longer you stay with them, the more it hurts.
<sigh> Man what a shitty semester this has been.
<sigh> Man what a shitty semester this has been.
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 01:02 PM
Saying that you can't rely on any male for support is only from the bad experiences you've had. I see it happening on both sides. One of my friends is going to to school from 6 in the morning till noon. Then working the rest of the day. Tries to make time for his gf and somewhere in there finds time to study. And he goes out of his way all the time for her and she doesn't appreciate him one bit. I can just see the pain and anger in him when he tells me about it. He treats his gf(of like 4 yrs) like a princess spends all the time he can and money he doesnt have on her and she really doesn't show him any appreciation for it. And when he wants to go out one night with the guys b/c if were lucky we get to hang out with him once a month b/c he's so busy, and she bitches.
But away from that there are a few of us good guys out there. My friends try and tell me to change myself and be louder and more straight forward. But thats not me and I'm not gonna change for anyone. I konw how you feel. It sucks, but I just continue to live day to day and know that fate will step in and meet a girl that doesn't piss me off to no end or just annoy me.
sounds to me like shes an unappreciative spoiled little bitch who doesnt know how to lift a finger for herself. but what can u do girls will be like that if there used to being spoiled thats what they expect and hes needs to break her of that.
But away from that there are a few of us good guys out there. My friends try and tell me to change myself and be louder and more straight forward. But thats not me and I'm not gonna change for anyone. I konw how you feel. It sucks, but I just continue to live day to day and know that fate will step in and meet a girl that doesn't piss me off to no end or just annoy me.
sounds to me like shes an unappreciative spoiled little bitch who doesnt know how to lift a finger for herself. but what can u do girls will be like that if there used to being spoiled thats what they expect and hes needs to break her of that.
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 01:20 PM
Its the eternal struggle... On the one hand, you don't want to be alone, and want to be with someone special, but on the other hand you don't wanna risk getting hurt. And you almost expect to get hurt eventually. And the longer you stay with them, the more it hurts.
<sigh> Man what a shitty semester this has been.
thats exactly it! basically i want and party and have fun and work my on car but and at the same time i want someone to do that stuff with. its great when we have the same interests. i want so bad to have someone just to BE there ya know but dont get me wrong i am able to be alone, just dont prefer it.
<sigh> Man what a shitty semester this has been.
thats exactly it! basically i want and party and have fun and work my on car but and at the same time i want someone to do that stuff with. its great when we have the same interests. i want so bad to have someone just to BE there ya know but dont get me wrong i am able to be alone, just dont prefer it.
Dan_in_WA
10-23-2003, 01:57 PM
IMHO,
It's time to start ANOTHER thread: Decent, likeable car fanatics Sign Up Here!
:naughty: :smokin:
Edit: Singles only. Counts me out. :iceslolan
It's time to start ANOTHER thread: Decent, likeable car fanatics Sign Up Here!
:naughty: :smokin:
Edit: Singles only. Counts me out. :iceslolan
TexasF355F1
10-23-2003, 02:12 PM
sounds to me like shes an unappreciative spoiled little bitch who doesnt know how to lift a finger for herself. but what can u do girls will be like that if there used to being spoiled thats what they expect and hes needs to break her of that.
oh yea, she is spoiled. More her moms fault than her dad or step dads fault. Shes a whiner too. He's tried everything in his power to break her of that and he can't, she changed real quick when he broke up with her but once they got back together she eventually went back to her old self.
oh yea, she is spoiled. More her moms fault than her dad or step dads fault. Shes a whiner too. He's tried everything in his power to break her of that and he can't, she changed real quick when he broke up with her but once they got back together she eventually went back to her old self.
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 02:41 PM
oh yea, she is spoiled. More her moms fault than her dad or step dads fault. Shes a whiner too. He's tried everything in his power to break her of that and he can't, she changed real quick when he broke up with her but once they got back together she eventually went back to her old self.
the ass must be really good if he lets her walk on him like that. its too bad because hes prolly the nice guy thats missing out on other opportunities with better girls. there are nice chicks out there ya know.
the ass must be really good if he lets her walk on him like that. its too bad because hes prolly the nice guy thats missing out on other opportunities with better girls. there are nice chicks out there ya know.
solid
10-23-2003, 03:46 PM
well theres always someone for someone!!
after my real crappy split (which took awhile to get over)... i found my my girlfiend, who is really cool.. she has alot in common with me,.. and i dont like to take her money, and she dont like to take mine.. but i like to buy her stuff.. hehehe
and she got her own car and job and all,.. and so do i,.. and we have already tried living together for about 3 months,. and she cool and all!!!! its great!..
sorry if i sound like im bragging,.. but just to let you know it will work out.. just gotta wait for the right person to come along......
after my real crappy split (which took awhile to get over)... i found my my girlfiend, who is really cool.. she has alot in common with me,.. and i dont like to take her money, and she dont like to take mine.. but i like to buy her stuff.. hehehe
and she got her own car and job and all,.. and so do i,.. and we have already tried living together for about 3 months,. and she cool and all!!!! its great!..
sorry if i sound like im bragging,.. but just to let you know it will work out.. just gotta wait for the right person to come along......
imprtchk21
10-23-2003, 04:08 PM
well theres always someone for someone!!
after my real crappy split (which took awhile to get over)... i found my my girlfiend, who is really cool.. she has alot in common with me,.. and i dont like to take her money, and she dont like to take mine.. but i like to buy her stuff.. hehehe
and she got her own car and job and all,.. and so do i,.. and we have already tried living together for about 3 months,. and she cool and all!!!! its great!..
sorry if i sound like im bragging,.. but just to let you know it will work out.. just gotta wait for the right person to come along......
hey thnx i know one day i will but i jus get tired of all the shit ya know? i was jus letting u guys know that it does go both ways u may have ur opinion on the way girls are and we thnk the same about u guys. well until then bye if any of u ever wanna chat with me im here k.
after my real crappy split (which took awhile to get over)... i found my my girlfiend, who is really cool.. she has alot in common with me,.. and i dont like to take her money, and she dont like to take mine.. but i like to buy her stuff.. hehehe
and she got her own car and job and all,.. and so do i,.. and we have already tried living together for about 3 months,. and she cool and all!!!! its great!..
sorry if i sound like im bragging,.. but just to let you know it will work out.. just gotta wait for the right person to come along......
hey thnx i know one day i will but i jus get tired of all the shit ya know? i was jus letting u guys know that it does go both ways u may have ur opinion on the way girls are and we thnk the same about u guys. well until then bye if any of u ever wanna chat with me im here k.
TexasF355F1
10-23-2003, 07:39 PM
the ass must be really good if he lets her walk on him like that. its too bad because hes prolly the nice guy thats missing out on other opportunities with better girls. there are nice chicks out there ya know.
He's a good guy, he's one of my best friends. He doesn't let her walk all over him b/c he tells her how it is all the time. Shes really a nice girl she just whines. He doesn't want to end it b/c he knows he can trust her 100% and thats hard to find these days. And yea there are nice chicks out there, just wish i could find one for myself, there a dime a dozen.
He's a good guy, he's one of my best friends. He doesn't let her walk all over him b/c he tells her how it is all the time. Shes really a nice girl she just whines. He doesn't want to end it b/c he knows he can trust her 100% and thats hard to find these days. And yea there are nice chicks out there, just wish i could find one for myself, there a dime a dozen.
Steel
10-23-2003, 08:38 PM
He *thinks* he can trust her 100%
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
TexasF355F1
10-23-2003, 10:05 PM
He *thinks* he can trust her 100%
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
I said he knows, not he thinks.
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
I said he knows, not he thinks.
imprtchk21
10-24-2003, 07:18 AM
He *thinks* he can trust her 100%
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
yeah its been really hard for me to build trust with guys. but it takes time to build trust and i geuss if someone isnt willing to be supportive of that and give u time to build that trust then fuck em.
For all I knew, if you asked me a few months ago, I would have "known" that I could trust kate 100%.
Sucks when they break your trust, cause it takes a long time to rebuild.
yeah its been really hard for me to build trust with guys. but it takes time to build trust and i geuss if someone isnt willing to be supportive of that and give u time to build that trust then fuck em.
Steel
10-24-2003, 12:36 PM
and here we go.. sh'e sputting me into remission again...
fuckin hell. last nite.. i was hangin out with her.. and.. the new guy.. and towards the end of the night.. she i dunno whispered, whatever something along the lines of "i miss you.. i still love you...i'm gonna cry" and that kinda stuff... then 5 minutes later, i see them together..
Why can't she stop! she can't say that! why must she torture me!
agh! I need to tell her that. two steps forward and three steps back. Jeeezus.
I'm gonna go puke now. :(
fuckin hell. last nite.. i was hangin out with her.. and.. the new guy.. and towards the end of the night.. she i dunno whispered, whatever something along the lines of "i miss you.. i still love you...i'm gonna cry" and that kinda stuff... then 5 minutes later, i see them together..
Why can't she stop! she can't say that! why must she torture me!
agh! I need to tell her that. two steps forward and three steps back. Jeeezus.
I'm gonna go puke now. :(
imprtchk21
10-24-2003, 02:12 PM
and here we go.. sh'e sputting me into remission again...
fuckin hell. last nite.. i was hangin out with her.. and.. the new guy.. and towards the end of the night.. she i dunno whispered, whatever something along the lines of "i miss you.. i still love you...i'm gonna cry" and that kinda stuff... then 5 minutes later, i see them together..
Why can't she stop! she can't say that! why must she torture me!
agh! I need to tell her that. two steps forward and three steps back. Jeeezus.
I'm gonna go puke now. :(
im not gonna ask y u do that to urself, continue to see her, cuz im sure u have ur own reasons, and at this time im sure they are completely relevent to u. but im gonna be honest with u its only tearing u apart more. and u see that, i know it, but u cant resist the temptation to see her face, and hear her voice no matter how much it kills u. i cant even attempt to describe how unhealthy that is for u. i know that im not the expert on relationships or love for even that matter cuz i wldnt be lonely and in the position that im in but there things that i do know and these are a couple. u really need to just shut off ur phone for one night say tonight for example or even sat night. go out with ur friends im not saying dont think about her cuz u will but im saying try to enjoy taking care of u for a while go out, have a good time, a couple drinks, dont overdue it cuz then ull get emotional, beleive me i know. hell maybe even try getting crazy and aproach a new girl, lol! not even for a hookup just for someone to talk to maybe she can relate. work on ur car, go to the races, car shows, do everything productive that u can, every time u have a chance to go out go. cuz if u just stay at home all night thats when its the worst. i stayed in my bedroom when my boyfriend broke up with me for 2 weeks, 2 weeks! that is the worst thing possible u could do. trust me, even tho u dnt know me, u have to get out and do something at first itll be hard i know but i promise itll be better it just takes time. right now u probably feel like this feeling is nvr going to go away like the hurt, and pain will always be there. but it will it just takes time. give it time and give u two time...apart. its not going to help ur healing process at all if u keep going around her, let alone cing her with someone else. well i hope i helped a little pm me if u need talk anytime at all.
fuckin hell. last nite.. i was hangin out with her.. and.. the new guy.. and towards the end of the night.. she i dunno whispered, whatever something along the lines of "i miss you.. i still love you...i'm gonna cry" and that kinda stuff... then 5 minutes later, i see them together..
Why can't she stop! she can't say that! why must she torture me!
agh! I need to tell her that. two steps forward and three steps back. Jeeezus.
I'm gonna go puke now. :(
im not gonna ask y u do that to urself, continue to see her, cuz im sure u have ur own reasons, and at this time im sure they are completely relevent to u. but im gonna be honest with u its only tearing u apart more. and u see that, i know it, but u cant resist the temptation to see her face, and hear her voice no matter how much it kills u. i cant even attempt to describe how unhealthy that is for u. i know that im not the expert on relationships or love for even that matter cuz i wldnt be lonely and in the position that im in but there things that i do know and these are a couple. u really need to just shut off ur phone for one night say tonight for example or even sat night. go out with ur friends im not saying dont think about her cuz u will but im saying try to enjoy taking care of u for a while go out, have a good time, a couple drinks, dont overdue it cuz then ull get emotional, beleive me i know. hell maybe even try getting crazy and aproach a new girl, lol! not even for a hookup just for someone to talk to maybe she can relate. work on ur car, go to the races, car shows, do everything productive that u can, every time u have a chance to go out go. cuz if u just stay at home all night thats when its the worst. i stayed in my bedroom when my boyfriend broke up with me for 2 weeks, 2 weeks! that is the worst thing possible u could do. trust me, even tho u dnt know me, u have to get out and do something at first itll be hard i know but i promise itll be better it just takes time. right now u probably feel like this feeling is nvr going to go away like the hurt, and pain will always be there. but it will it just takes time. give it time and give u two time...apart. its not going to help ur healing process at all if u keep going around her, let alone cing her with someone else. well i hope i helped a little pm me if u need talk anytime at all.
dirtydx
10-24-2003, 10:42 PM
im in the same boat. waiting for that nice girl. everyone says there's plenty more fish in the sea... but where the hell is this sea, all i got is a dried up crick. :screwy:
good luck 2 u.
good luck 2 u.
HogieGT-R
10-25-2003, 01:36 AM
i stayed in my bedroom when my boyfriend broke up with me for 2 weeks, 2 weeks!
yeah tell me about it...i've been in a situation like that and it's starting to heal now,and i'm starting to feel better about myself than i did when i was stomped on, but i come to wonder if it's the women or it's just me? do i shut myself off from potential women, or is it that i look around too much? or is it that i got too comfortable being friends with benefits with my ex? is she my ex? or is she more than just my ex? i don't know what's going on with it...but i can honestly say that i feel your pain with that...
Steel you gotta pull yourself out of this fucking rut man! seriously..what part of cut yourself off don't you get dude? that's gonna happen to you if you don't show her that it's not gonna affect you like that man...what you're doing to yourself is as messed up as if you were handing me the keys to your sweet RX-7...and i know that you don't want to do that...the best thing to do is move on! and don't be the 3rd wheel in an outing kind of thing...may i remind you again that you're in Amherst?!?!?! it should be easy to find someone to hang with man.... if not, then drive 90 minutes over here on a friday and chill with me and my crew...it's not like home, but it's better than sulking over an ex who contradicts herself to just make you squirm...dude drop her like a bad habit!
dirtydx- i totally feel you about that creek...especially at my school...the girls are either taken, or they're undesireable....it's frustrating but all i can say is patience and lots of video games.....
yeah tell me about it...i've been in a situation like that and it's starting to heal now,and i'm starting to feel better about myself than i did when i was stomped on, but i come to wonder if it's the women or it's just me? do i shut myself off from potential women, or is it that i look around too much? or is it that i got too comfortable being friends with benefits with my ex? is she my ex? or is she more than just my ex? i don't know what's going on with it...but i can honestly say that i feel your pain with that...
Steel you gotta pull yourself out of this fucking rut man! seriously..what part of cut yourself off don't you get dude? that's gonna happen to you if you don't show her that it's not gonna affect you like that man...what you're doing to yourself is as messed up as if you were handing me the keys to your sweet RX-7...and i know that you don't want to do that...the best thing to do is move on! and don't be the 3rd wheel in an outing kind of thing...may i remind you again that you're in Amherst?!?!?! it should be easy to find someone to hang with man.... if not, then drive 90 minutes over here on a friday and chill with me and my crew...it's not like home, but it's better than sulking over an ex who contradicts herself to just make you squirm...dude drop her like a bad habit!
dirtydx- i totally feel you about that creek...especially at my school...the girls are either taken, or they're undesireable....it's frustrating but all i can say is patience and lots of video games.....
imprtchk21
10-25-2003, 07:18 AM
yeah tell me about it...i've been in a situation like that and it's starting to heal now,and i'm starting to feel better about myself than i did when i was stomped on, but i come to wonder if it's the women or it's just me? do i shut myself off from potential women, or is it that i look around too much? or is it that i got too comfortable being friends with benefits with my ex? is she my ex? or is she more than just my ex? i don't know what's going on with it...but i can honestly say that i feel your pain with that...
Steel you gotta pull yourself out of this fucking rut man! seriously..what part of cut yourself off don't you get dude? that's gonna happen to you if you don't show her that it's not gonna affect you like that man...what you're doing to yourself is as messed up as if you were handing me the keys to your sweet RX-7...and i know that you don't want to do that...the best thing to do is move on! and don't be the 3rd wheel in an outing kind of thing...may i remind you again that you're in Amherst?!?!?! it should be easy to find someone to hang with man.... if not, then drive 90 minutes over here on a friday and chill with me and my crew...it's not like home, but it's better than sulking over an ex who contradicts herself to just make you squirm...dude drop her like a bad habit!
dirtydx- i totally feel you about that creek...especially at my school...the girls are either taken, or they're undesireable....it's frustrating but all i can say is patience and lots of video games.....
yeah well i live out here in phoenix arizona, im not braging but like i said before its not hard for me to find guys at all its just that i cant find guys who want to be with me and just me not 10 other girls. nvr once have i been with a guy who has skrewd me over royally. im beginning to thnk its me. trying to find thngs that cld be wrong with me. thngs i can fix. i know thats not good at all but what else am i supposed to do?
Steel you gotta pull yourself out of this fucking rut man! seriously..what part of cut yourself off don't you get dude? that's gonna happen to you if you don't show her that it's not gonna affect you like that man...what you're doing to yourself is as messed up as if you were handing me the keys to your sweet RX-7...and i know that you don't want to do that...the best thing to do is move on! and don't be the 3rd wheel in an outing kind of thing...may i remind you again that you're in Amherst?!?!?! it should be easy to find someone to hang with man.... if not, then drive 90 minutes over here on a friday and chill with me and my crew...it's not like home, but it's better than sulking over an ex who contradicts herself to just make you squirm...dude drop her like a bad habit!
dirtydx- i totally feel you about that creek...especially at my school...the girls are either taken, or they're undesireable....it's frustrating but all i can say is patience and lots of video games.....
yeah well i live out here in phoenix arizona, im not braging but like i said before its not hard for me to find guys at all its just that i cant find guys who want to be with me and just me not 10 other girls. nvr once have i been with a guy who has skrewd me over royally. im beginning to thnk its me. trying to find thngs that cld be wrong with me. thngs i can fix. i know thats not good at all but what else am i supposed to do?
Steel
10-25-2003, 02:39 PM
Steel you gotta pull yourself out of this fucking rut man! seriously..what part of cut yourself off don't you get dude? that's gonna happen to you if you don't show her that it's not gonna affect you like that man...what you're doing to yourself is as messed up as if you were handing me the keys to your sweet RX-7...and i know that you don't want to do that...the best thing to do is move on! and don't be the 3rd wheel in an outing kind of thing...may i remind you again that you're in Amherst?!?!?! it should be easy to find someone to hang with man.... if not, then drive 90 minutes over here on a friday and chill with me and my crew...it's not like home, but it's better than sulking over an ex who contradicts herself to just make you squirm...dude drop her like a bad habit!
Ah yeah... im workin on it. I won't have a choice by the end of the semester, because i'm leaving this place. just until then... its hard to tear myself away. heh, sorry for being human. :icon16:
Ah yeah... im workin on it. I won't have a choice by the end of the semester, because i'm leaving this place. just until then... its hard to tear myself away. heh, sorry for being human. :icon16:
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