What was I thinking?

I’m trying to decide if I’m the foolish one or if he is. I broke up with my fiancé about two months ago and started seeing a guy I had met a few years back. When this started I just wanted to be friends with benefits, I really don’t want another relationship right now. But he wouldn’t do that. So I agreed to have a casual relationship with him. (Casual relationship meaning we spent time together under the pretence of being exclusive to each other) Well our casual relationship has turned into him simply calling me when he wants sex and having nothing else to do with me, as well as messing around with other women. If he hadn’t implied that he wanted a “relationship” then I would have no problem with his behavior.
What pisses me off is that if sex is all he wanted why did he give me the impression that he wanted more. I would have been happy just having him for a “friend”. But no, he wanted to make me think he cared for me. I’m so angry with my self forever thinking some one like him would be honest.

Ok I’m done. I just need to vent.

I’m trying to decide if I’m the foolish one or if he is. I broke up with my fiancé about two months ago and started seeing a guy I had met a few years back. When this started I just wanted to be friends with benefits, I really don’t want another relationship right now. But he wouldn’t do that. So I agreed to have a casual relationship with him. (Casual relationship meaning we spent time together under the pretence of being exclusive to each other) Well our casual relationship has turned into him simply calling me when he wants sex and having nothing else to do with me, as well as messing around with other women. If he hadn’t implied that he wanted a “relationship” then I would have no problem with his behavior.
What pisses me off is that if sex is all he wanted why did he give me the impression that he wanted more. I would have been happy just having him for a “friend”. But no, he wanted to make me think he cared for me. I’m so angry with my self forever thinking some one like him would be honest.

Ok I’m done. I just need to vent.

Everyone makes decisions in life that dont end up for the best, and it's these results that help us to be more careful for the future. You'll make it, you sound like you're a pretty strong individual. All I can really say I guess is good luck.:)

hey, if you're in tampa, i'm available :wink: , seriously.. i'm a nice guy.. not a liar either.... :)

I realized after my rant that I kinda made my self look like a slut. I'm not I just know what I want in life and I don't care what people think of me. Besides if males can do it why can't I?
Any way I live in south florida. But if I'm ever in the area I'll remember your offer. Maybe we could catch a race. Its kinda funny, the guy I mentioned drove a WS6. Grrr F body drivers!

Besides if males can do it why can't I?

Hooah to that.

personally, i don't think anyone, m or f should be a slut....

how come the girls want the assholes/man whores??? :dunno:

well anyways, yeah, let me know if you want to run 'em/get together some time if you're around....

don't hate f-body drivers!!! we're not ALL bad... :thumbsup:

Besides if males can do it why can't I?

Probably has something to do with that men can't get vaginitis (because we don't have vaginas) or at least that's the best reason I could come up with.

Probably has something to do with that men can't get vaginitis (because we don't have vaginas) or at least that's the best reason I could come up with.

:grinyes: :grinno: :iceslolan :biggrin: :lol2: :rofl: :22yikes: :cwm27: :D

that was pretty funny man...

EDIT: and if it wasn't supposed to be funny, than it was just a good reason...

Everyone, regardless of gender, should be allowed to be as sluttly as they want, its all part of democracy. So if you dont like sluttiness, you dont like democracy.

Hmm well I already have a low opinion of women right now in general. I think its ok to be a slut as long as you're not lying about it. Its great to whore around women just have an easier time doing it. But since you are from Florida you're cool in my book. Grew up in St Pete but now I'm in Japan, I wanna see a Bucs game damn it!

hey don't be so hard on everyone! Everone should have a fuck buddy!

actually u really did sound like a slut, sounds like you are getting USED, but if you are fine with it, then ok

just brings your #'s up

why cant girls do it?

girls have something in them, guys are the thing in them,

when guys loose their virginity, nothing physically happens, when girls do, u gotta break the "hi men!"

how can you talk about yourself like that

have some respect for yourself

america today....

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